Dude, you're saying the same thing. We are saying that sexless marriage can work. It's not for everybody and it's definitely not the majority, but it can and does happen. (Which is what you just said). Otherwise, all those men who can't get it up, or women that are unable to have sex for a number of reasons are just shit out of luck looking for love.
But, I'm still confused. I said, "while I want one, I will be ok if there is no sex scene with Charlotte, because for me in this particular AVN, with Charlotte, romance is more important." How that got onto a discussion about whether sexless marriage can work is baffling.