I posted a guide with instructions in the forum. It explains the console commands. Lust is a variable that only affects the person named so you only need name.lust = 100. But for love or affection the person needs a target name so name.rsm[0].variable you want = 100 applies. This makes it possible for the girls to also have love/affection with other girls on the island at some future point.
Thank you
@Paitryn for your guide and the patience to continue to answer the same questions over and over again.
For everyone else. See that little box in the upper right labelled 'Search'? Search 'console' in this thread and you get 8 pages of results. 'Console Commands' gives 2 pages of results. So yes, I find it frustrating to see posts with the same questions over and over again when the answers are readily avavilable.
That being said, to help those too lazy to search for
@Paitryn's guide, it can be found on page 36.