How intrusive are the games in your real life ?

[Clasher1]

I'm wondering if any of those games affect you when you stop playing. Could be said about regular porn too. For example, I still live with my family and, after playing an incest game for the whole day, gotta say the family dinner feels a bit weird to me. So I start to question my choices.

Have you ever, in real life situations, been thinking about a game you've been playing ?

 

[Chalker]

after beating it to monster girls all day, my Lamia wife wrings me out dry.
But honestly, not really, sometimes I think of h-games but nothing really sparks that, nor has it changed how I operate.

 

[Adabelitoo]

In the same way that games of TV shows don't affect my life, porn games don't afect my life either.

 

[Doorknob22]

Enjoying gay porn doesn't mean you're gay. Enjoying loli porn doesn't mean you're a pedo. Enjoying rape porn doesn't mean you're danger to society and enjoying incest porn doesn't mean you're lusting after your own family members.

Fantasy != Life.

 

[Clasher1]

Enjoying gay porn doesn't mean you're gay. Enjoying loli porn doesn't mean you're a pedo. Enjoying rape porn doesn't mean you're danger to society and enjoying incest porn doesn't mean you're lusting after your own family members.

Yeah, that's what I have trouble with, I think. Objectively, I have fucked up fetishes. When I'm playing, it's wonderful, but when I'm back to reality, I sometimes try to understand where those fetishes come from, maybe I shouldn't.

 

[Adabelitoo]

Enjoying gay porn doesn't mean you're gay. Enjoying loli porn doesn't mean you're a pedo. Enjoying rape porn doesn't mean you're danger to society and enjoying incest porn doesn't mean you're lusting after your own family members.

Fantasy != Life.

I'd make a difference between gay porn and everything else. Everything else is just a fetish but "gay" isn't a fetish like loli or incest. Gay is a sexual orientation. Unless by "gay" you mean a man watching two woman go at it, in which case that is indeed a fetish, a man watching a two guys going at it probably means that the man is at least bisexual.

 

[Clasher1]

I'd make a difference between gay porn and everything else. Everything else is just a fetish but "gay" isn't a fetish like loli or incest. Gay is a sexual orientation. Unless by "gay" you mean a man watching two woman go at it, in which case that is indeed a fetish, a man watching a two guys going at it probably means that the man is at least bisexual.

Then, what about loli ? Aren't people with a loli fetish purely in it for the childlike appearance ?

 

[Adabelitoo]

Then, what about loli ? Aren't people with a loli fetish purely in it for the childlike appearance ?

Do you think "underage" is a sexual orientation?

Because if you do, then I'm sorry but you should have payed more attention to your sexual education classes in elementary/middle/highschool.

 

[Clasher1]

Do you think "underage" is a sexual orientation?

Because if you do, then I'm sorry but you should have payed more attention to your sexual education classes in elementary/middle/highschool.

The answer to this question is still being debated. It's unclear wether it's a sexual orientation or not.

But that was not what I was pointing at. Basically, what I'm trying to say, is, for gay people, they see an attractive male, they're aroused, and it's the same for loli lovers when they see a loli. No matter the story surrending them in the fist place. So, in a way, they are similar, in both the subject of arousal is the appearance (or the forbidden aspect, but then Doorknob22's point works for gay porn too). But maybe there's more to loli that I know.

But we stray far from my initial topic.

 

[Doorknob22]

Maybe I shouldn't.

Exactly. Let it go, it's nothing and even more important: it says nothing about you. Fantasies are just that.

 

[Adabelitoo]

The answer to this question is still being debated. It's unclear wether it's a sexual orientation or not.

But that was not what I was pointing at. Basically, what I'm trying to say, is, for gay people, they see an attractive male, they're aroused, and it's the same for loli lovers when they see a loli. No matter the story surrending them in the fist place. So, in a way, they are similar, in both the subject of arousal is the appearance (or the forbidden aspect, but then Doorknob22's point works for gay porn too). But maybe there's more to loli that I know.

But we stray far from my initial topic.

Again, you should have payed more attention to your sexual education classes in elementary/middle/highschool.

No, underage isn't a sexual orientantion and sexual orientation isn't the same as a fetish. If you are a straight male and you get aroused watching another male, then you aren't as straight as you think, unless by "gay" you mean the futa, in which case people can watch it as a woman with a dick instead of a man with tits, or sissification which main attractive for the fans is the power play over the "victim", in which case some people could ask "Why the power play has to be over a man and not a woman?" and that answer could be "Because forcing a man implies even more power" but then someone else could ask "Why the fact that it's a man doesn't trigger any limit on you?", because as an example, some people like rough sex but the moment their realize that the woman isn't enjoying it and she's seriously suffering, their erection dies instantly, because that's their limit.

 

[Meaning Less]

It's unclear wether it's a sexual orientation or not.

None of it is related sexual orientation, games and porn are completely separated from what people want or do in real life.

Now for sure it is possible for these games to affect your life, not because of the kinks you consume, but like you mentioned because you've spent the entire day fapping...

I mean as long as you can balance it with your personal life it shouldn't matter, but if they are getting in the way of relationships and things you wanted to do in real life then maybe give porn a rest for a while.

 

[coffeeaddicted]

I'm wondering if any of those games affect you when you stop playing. Could be said about regular porn too. For example, I still live with my family and, after playing an incest game for the whole day, gotta say the family dinner feels a bit weird to me. So I start to question my choices.

Have you ever, in real life situations, been thinking about a game you've been playing ?

First off, you need to separate reality from fantasy.
If you can't do that, you should consider taking a break from the game or any game.

I can say for me, that i don't need porn or porn games as they usually represent a reality i am not living in and it's not what i am.
Sure, it is arousing and you get to blast off if you wish but it's fake anyway. Just like porn.
You want to live in reality especially if you want to experience intimacy with a real person.

And no, i never was in a situation like that. When it gets to be an obsession it's time to let it go or if it interferes with your life.

 

[Asia Argento]

In real life, I totally think about hypnotising random girls and breaking their minds to be my sex slaves and creating a harem of concubines who serve me and make me money as the ones not at work take turns licking my asshole...

...said no one ever...

 

[♍VoidTraveler]

In real life, I totally think about hypnotising random girls and breaking their minds to be my sex slaves and creating a harem of concubines who serve me and make me money as the ones not at work take turns licking my asshole...

...said no one ever...

Really?
I think that sounds quite close to how pimps live their lives in RL.

I'm wondering if any of those games affect you when you stop playing.

Oh you know, the usual: Depressed because life is way too boring compared to games.

 

[chainedpanda]

I will admit that some have had an effect on me, but not in the way I think you're describing. Playing an incest games doesn't impact my interactions with other, much. I've been playing for years, and I can say that they have impacted my sex life. They have helped mold and change my interests significantly, but other than this, not much has changed.

There have been brief moments of depression in which I've found myself falling into a fantasy of some game that I had played recently, giving me dreams of the fantasy and shit. I also enjoy world building as a hobby. Just creating fantastical worlds just for the fun of it. It's kinda therapeutic to me. Adult games have impacted this hobby significantly. Several games have provided inspiration for my hobby, and honestly have completely shifted how I go about it. I used to design edgy, occult-like modern fantasy worlds, but now I focus more-so on general fantasy and often add elements of slavery, incest, and other such adult themes that I never bothered with before.

Also, aside from time sinks, nothing else has really happened.

 

[fitgirlbestgirl]

Enjoying gay porn doesn't mean you're gay. Enjoying loli porn doesn't mean you're a pedo. Enjoying rape porn doesn't mean you're danger to society and enjoying incest porn doesn't mean you're lusting after your own family members.

Fantasy != Life.

Exactly. Let it go, it's nothing and even more important: it says nothing about you. Fantasies are just that.

None of it is related sexual orientation, games and porn are completely separated from what people want or do in real life.

Obviously there is a difference between fantasy and reality, but insisting that your fantasies say nothing about and are completely divorced from what you want in real life seems insane and certainly isn't the case for me. Yeah, the things you fantasize about might take things to extremes you wouldn't or couldn't go to in real life, but they're usually at least directionally aligned with your real desires, otherwise how and why did you seek them out in the first place? I'm sorry but if you're jerking it exclusively to hardcore rape porn, you're probably not into super romantic vanilla sex in real life with lots of hand-holding and head-patting.

There can be exceptions of course, I'm not saying that whatever tickles your fancy in a game represents some repressed urge you really want to live out. Incest, for example, is (for most people) probably more about the extra spice the taboo aspect brings to sexual situations and, given the chance, most people wouldn't want to bang mommy. Then again, most people's mothers aren't sexually attractive women and don't sneak into their room at night to stare at their dick and give them a handjob. How can you really know how "morally opposed" to incest you are when your mother is an overweight ugly old bag instead of a supermodel with big tits who wants to suck your dick.

 

[Meaning Less]

Yeah, the things you fantasize about might take things to extremes you wouldn't or couldn't go to in real life, but they're usually at least directionally aligned with your real desires, otherwise how and why did you seek them out in the first place?

-Consume porn
-Get bored of it
-Look for new Stuff
-Restart cycle

That's how you progress your degeneracy, by looking for things that make you pp go harder and harder.

And also yes, you can even get bored of even the most hardcore porn ever, until suddenly you find yourself craving for the most vanilla stuff ever like handholding.

Variation is the spice of life, my pallate is always changing.

And to anyone that has never fapped to traps because you think it challenges you sexuality, stop being a pussy and start wanking.

 

[Adabelitoo]

And to anyone that has never fapped to traps because you think it challenges you sexuality, stop being a pussy and start wanking.

The only challenge in that, is being honest with yourself and accepting that you're bisexual at least.

The art is top tier, the artist clearly know his shit, you don't need to like the fetish to tell the quality, but if the hard dick doesn't trigger any limits in your brain, then I have news for you...

 

[Meaning Less]

The art is top tier, the artist clearly know his shit, you don't need to like the fetish to tell the quality, but if the hard dick doesn't trigger any limits in your brain

Limits exist to be surpassed, don't be so insecure about your sexuality.

You clearly love the art, just think of it as a dildo attached to her pussy and go for it.