sorry, may i ask, what's bum?
lol, it's one of the 4 modes for the game:
1. Working Adult, 2. Student, 3. Part Timer and 4. Bum
Note: This is kinda loosely, since the 2nd choice may change it.
IIRC, that's basically the first option you pick when starting a new game.
Stats and gameplay changes depending on which one you pick, with the Bum one being the most annoying(?)--Due to low starting energy, along with poor income. [Since part-time work only appears on the weekend.]
any guides that are up to date on this game?
No real need for a guide; it's a sand-box dating sim. Just raise her & your stats while keeping her happy. Gameplay changes [minor] depending on what your start is. Only thing you really needa watch for is if you get her pregnant while not having enough money -- Leads to a game over; otherwise it changes your gameplay to working adult, IIRC.
And an early mention: If you pick bum/neet, make sure you start with at least 20 energy.
Basically, just get her affection stat to 50, while keeping her happiness high, for bathing together. Then work on getting Affection to around 250~500, while increasing lewdness where you can. Once it's around there, focus on the lewd, because affection won't matter anymore.
For the sleep molesting/rape, it's better to not interact too much, since you want to get her lust high before she wakes.