As far as f95 standards go this thread has been very tame compared to other games that have done something similar. Had this been tagged as having ntr from the start at most id have asked if it would be avoidable and if not move on.l
As I've stated before. We are all humans and therefore have different preferences and different levels of abuse we would accept. That is probably why some people are masochists and others not, and some likes NTR, corruption, none consensual sex, sharing, cheating etc, while others don't
To say that this thread is very tame compared to others, and the dev. therefore should just accept it, is IMHO VERY disrespectful. If you don't like a game, why don't you write that in a calm matter and if the dev disagree, ditch the game and move on?
Unless you are willing to pay the dev for the time he/she spend developing a game designed for your preference, all you have a right to do, is to politely ask whether it's possible that the dev could/will change the game so it fits your preferences. You have absolutely NO right to demand it nor to bully the dev if he/she decides to change the game to something you don't like.
Please leave this thread and move on with your life.