i hate this when i started the game. My first sex and i cannot climax no matter how hard i tried... after several restart and some hours of playing, i realised that in order to have a good sex, there are some things you should know.The sex system, is EXTREMELY, super awful.
You frequently get softlocked into being unable to reach orgasm, and if you quit sex before orgasm, you get punished... Why? Why is it so fucking hard to reach orgasm? It makes no sense, lol.
1 - You must have the lengendary fucker trait - in version 1172, my sex partner reaches climax very fast, but I am still far far away.
2 - Your partner must have sexual trait that gives you lots of pleasure depending what kind of sex you are doing. If not you will be stuck at the last inch and cannot climax no matter how hard you try.
Now i make sure that my partner is readied with my suggestions before i attempt the impossible
Also note that even without suggestion, their sex appeal bar will progress. This mean if your first sex is bad, keep fucking the same person. The longer you try the better and faster the sex. With this in mind prepare for a longer sex if you are cheating with a total stranger
I am too curious about "ask if want sex for money?" option. I have NPC asking me, but I have never been able to click and select to offer sex for money.