Dude, I am trying to follow and understand. But your last point is that it upsets you that you get three choices, and two of the answers that get you points bother you. Don't want to say, "Layla's legs?" Then say, "4."
I have, on more than one occasion, dated someone who was friends with the girl I really wanted to date. That is how I got with my wife. Seems pretty realistic. But I get why that rubs people the wrong way. Layla is fricken perfect. Breaking her heart really sucks. It's just a step in a game to get where you want. Not interested in Layla? Perfect! She is just the midlevel boss to get to Elena.