Searching for "control" and "order" in RemtairyPrison.js yields a lot of results.
Control is how much order will change when you sleep.
If you have 100 order and -5 control next day you will have 95 order.
When you win a battle you will increase order, not control.
You can change control by buying edicts.
I suggest trying to understand the game first before editing files.
It is easy probably because slut builds are easy to do.
You naturally level up END because sex attacks enemies do gives you endurance exp.
You also naturally level up DEX because sex attacks you do gives dexterity exp.
For a slut build only stat you need to actively work on increasing is MND. But even MND is fairly easy to level up because using any willpower skill(even suppress desire skills which you will be using anyway) gives mind exp.