you get a game over if you go to sleep while having less than 20 order.
i wish they would add position switching. like for example if a dude is forcing her to do a hand job she could one up him and use a blowjob move on him and next turn tit job. it could help with getting unwanted scenes and being stuck in them cause even if you make a dude cum another takes his place immediatly sometimes.
It depends on how much control you have, if you have near zero control, you won't get a game over until much lower.
For example, having -10 control means you lose 10 order on the next day. If floor one is rioting in 4 rooms, that removes more order as well. If you bankrupt, you lose another 10 order. But how much order you lose depends on these statistics.
I agree that sometimes getting pulled into positions you can't get out of is annoying though.
Personally what I'd like to see is a more defined difference between being submissive and being dominant. Making the two distinctive possible playthroughs, rather than them being muddled together.