And that's totally fine if that's the case. For me, that raises the question though, "Why would I play this particular platformer over the absolute mountain of alternatives that are already there for me to play, finished, polished, and going for cheap on various platforms and devices?" Mario, Metroid, Mega Man, Castlevania, Sonic, Kirby, Shantae, Shovel Knight- and each of those examples is full of sequels and spin-offs that offer different flavors of gameplay, all of which are complete, released, and don't involve waiting for new updates or trying to balance satisfying gameplay and "distracting erotic elements that interrupt the gameplay with repetitive animations." It's easier for me to appreciate the game when I don't view it as a game with porn in it, and choose to view it as an erotic game. It has less pressure to compete that way, it's not up against every platformer on the market, it's only up against erotic platformers, and only really outright fails if it doesn't provide a stimulating experience for someone, somewhere out there.
That isn't to say that I want healing to be tied into fooling around with downed enemies, I'm not sure that'd be fun, or exciting for anybody? I'd probably suggest things like having erotic grapples that let you deal slow, steady damage to enemies, and require you to input key sequences to keep the grapple going or further it's animation and damage along. Another option for winning fights, entirely optional. I like dumb little freedoms, though. I get more of a kick out of a game letting you decide what, if anything, you want to wear on your adventure, than I do out of repeating animations. So my opinions and ideas might only appeal to me, for all I know.
I'unno, this is all just my perspective. If I chose an erotic game- or a game with erotic elements tucked away in it- over a more serious, finished, feature-complete game of the same genre, it'd likely be because I'm there for the lewds. I'm not concerned as much with the gameplay and mechanics as much as I am with satisfying lewd bits, at that point. If pressured to view it as a more serious game, I don't think it's something I'd play in my free-time, given all the alternatives I'd probably have more fun with, eheh.. That holds true for a lot of lewd games, though. Not going to want to hang around in early-access hell waiting for the game to take shape, knowing that it might never do so, when I could instead be playing completed games of that same genre.