- Jun 7, 2018
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True but every debate can be loud when it comes to something they believe in. Like I don't give a damn about Politics, religion, culture, but what I'm stubborn with are Sexuality and it feels like I'm in a Time Bubble since I heard a lot of things that I havent heard about or something that seems strange in my mind.Discussion and debate is good when it's civil, and I can even take a bit of uncivil debate if it's on a decent topic and the other side seems more just abrasive than being a troll. I'm not saying the other person has to be super formal or anything, but if I feel like the other person doesn't respect me, then it doesn't feel like I'm having a worthy conversation, and at best I'm playing to the peanut gallery; However, I understand there's language barriers or different ways people might speak, and sometimes the other person might just be tilted for other reasons and letting it leak out, so I can give a bit of leeway there.
However, this (now multi-week) spat is basically just complaining and not going to lead to anything interesting, and frankly it feels like a lot of the more substantiate debate I've seen in this thread has been of the uncivil kind. I don't really feel like it's worth staying that up-to-date anymore, when I could be writing smut or learning to draw.
Respect hmmm? I never really understand that, what count as "Respecting" people opinion and "Just a normal Debate" especially when it comes to debating something everyone have a personal experience in because If people are respecting people decision then the debate end with just "You believe in what you want, and I believe in what I want." Which is usually the usual stalemate when you are friend with someone but doesn't want to hurt them because you have a different opinion, but those only work for friends i suppose. We are just some randos on internet in same thread.
Like I'm gonna be real with you, i don't know you and you don't know me, we are both fine making each other piss off, lol. Or maybe I'm just an asshole, but ehhhh At least I'm an asshole with standard because I at least convey how i feel, Mostly because I remember people can't read mind and what they think as "Not Angry" might get conveyed as angry because they cant see face, lol.
Honestly I'm more curious than starting a debate like in my mind it is more "Wait, what? What do you means by this new word? Why does people think "Sexuality" work this way when this other "Sexuality" exist?"