a judge is a scapgoat humans designed to make hard decisions for the common ppl that don't/can't use their own judgement.
and a lot of those laws they wield are just puritan BS ideas that SJWs and justice-cock-riders cling to to make themselves feel better.
young girls(11 and up) have sex in real life, especially in this modern era and that's the joke about society.. pretending little girls are all pure.. but girls listen and are curious about sex and they do have sex with boys.. I even had a cousin that would actively seduce boys when she was 10 or 11, cuz she liked playing and sex.
point is that this puritan BS is stupid, and society and laws need to grow up and look at stuff more honestly..
ppl are just afraid of the truth of life, so they hide behind those laws. The fact is that a young girl should be protected somewhat, but there shouldn't be a law that ABSOLUTELY you go to jail for sex with a minor.
Now here's the deal that should occur: IF you tricked her, raped her, or groomed her into sex.. only then should you go to jail. That would be an honest, and correct way to see the situation.