The dev doesn't post the SFW version here, and doesn't update the main post. It's the mods doing that.heh. not sure. honestly I think putting in the patch notes that sex would be removed from the game was a bad move - it should have been made clear - straight off at the top - that the sex was here to stay, and that this is a concession for the people running patreon being unconscionable pricks. Honestly if I were the dev, I wouldn't even post that 'non-sex' version here at all.
Instead we have confusing patch notes and people are making their displeasure known.
The patch notes are written as they are because these were the Patreon patch notes, and thus needed to be worded as such in order to comply with Patreon's stance regarding this game.
It's the mods who copy/pasted this Patreon-only message to the main post without context, causing this whole confusion.