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Wish I got involved in this thread back when it was like sub-150 replies, should've realized it was gonna blow up big. Gotta catch up on the latest build but all I have to say for now is... Yumi still best girl.
 

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Yes, I can. It got exposure, which is a positive. It cost the game new patrons, which is a negative. Those cancel out to become neutral. Now, without the positive of exposure, it is serving a negative purpose. 1.6K patrons of 3M views is ONLY 0.053333333333333%, not even 1% are patrons, so the views are meaningless, and that's not taking into account that not every single patron came from here, which lowers the number even further. You're giving wait too much credit to the pirate community, myself included. Sure, some will do what you say, but most won't because it goes against their reason for pirating in the first place. The pirates who only do it out of a lack of legitimate options are not in the majority.

Support on Patreon isn't about need, it's about whether it is deserved. In this case, it most certainly is. This game goes significantly above the level of practically every other game here, mostly because the majority of the competition here are porn games whereas this just happens to have sex scenes.

or just didn't enjoy the game that much and don't consider they should pay a dime for it
I know I'm nitpicking on this, but the way you worded it makes it sound like the people who "didn't enjoy it that much" can't pay when that isn't necessarily true. That's not a case of can't pay, that's a case of won't pay, there is a major difference. I mean, yeah, this is a pirate site, so that's fine, sort of. It isn't morally correct and it does harm the developer economically as he does lose potential patrons when people decide to pirate instead. I'm just pointing that out, though, the people that won't probably can pay and just refuse.

still made Selebus a successful person
No, what made him succeed is his hard work and dedication to the project even in the face of the leaks.

piracy is a good thing
This is not and has never been true. Piracy is a bad thing no matter how you try to justify it. Theft of any kind is bad.

I don't see how most people can actually discover the game outside pirate sites
His Itch.io, Patreon, and SubscribeStar are all publicly accessible, VNDB has a page about the game, there are several non-pirate sources of information.

Other than the disturbing scenes I wasn't prepared for (because I hadn't read the tags), the game is overall nice. I'm an hour into playing, taking my time to read most of the story, and I'm here to say that I'm enjoying the game. Keep up the good work, Selebus.
Trust me, absolutely nobody is prepared for those going into this game, even having read the tags.

Wish I got involved in this thread back when it was like sub-150 replies, should've realized it was gonna blow up big. Gotta catch up on the latest build but all I have to say for now is... Yumi still best girl.
She's still at the bottom of my list, right next to Sensei. She is improving, though, while he seems to have moments and then almost immediately slips right back
 
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Jesus Christ, people in this thread are like angels that never downloaded a single pirated game thing on the internet, yet... they are in a piracy forum, if you are not happy just don't download anything from anywhere here and let everyone decide for themselves.
 
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I've grown tired of people bringing this topic back because they feel like going on yet another round of condemnation or just to make excuses and justify themselves to complete strangers on the Internet, of all places.
Stop. You won't change any minds. Everything one could possibly say has been said already. Let the corpse of a long dead horse, buried somewhere underneath our feet, rot in peace.
Everything that one could have possibly been said has NOT been said, I have not seen somebody say that morality does not exist yet.
 

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Jesus Christ, people in this thread are like angels that never downloaded a single pirated game thing on the internet, yet... they are in a piracy forum, if you are not happy just don't download anything from anywhere here and let everyone decide for themselves.
Not true, I still actively do it, it's just this one I specifically avoid pirating at all while others depend on whether I can even get them legally or if the developer is doing something stupid that wastes development time. Nobody is telling anyone what to do, all anyone is doing is spreading the truth about piracy in relation to this game, that it IS hurting Selebus. You're probably going to be seeing this issue every time someone speaks up about the people who complain about it or whenever there's a leak. Why this game? Because it is literally free after two weeks, other games aren't ever free.

I'm on v0.16 how do I update without losing my save files?
Just download, it will read the files that are in appdata and you can play from there.

android plzz
It's too big, Android doesn't like huge apps, use Joiplay.

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More than 0% is not enough. He's also said that piracy has decreased the number of incoming patrons specifically when a leaked version is released, which hurts him and cancels out any positive it has ever done. The time that it is helpful for has long passed. I'm not arguing against him, my arguments are specifically based on his words. He actually DOES upload the public version here when leakers don't leak. I agree, a delay would be fair, it's not like this game is never free. Even better if there could be enforcement of this delay.

That's why you advertise it, like Selebus does on multiple platforms. The people who see this will play it and then will spread the word, then more will come in a repeating cycle that continually brings more. That's how it's supposed to be, what Selebus wants. No, it isn't unmatched, there are plenty of ways to do it without piracy, otherwise Selebus wouldn't be so vocal against it. He literally just gave us his blessing to keep complaining about it, he wouldn't do that if he didn't have other options, that would be shooting himself in the foot.

No, in the early days it did, but that time is over. Piracy has a limited usefulness and that usefulness passes very quickly and then becomes a threat. There is no piracy of any other kind, piracy is one thing, theft of an electronic product, piracy of ANY product is bad, full stop. Actually, piracy in anime works the same as piracy here, it helps in the early days to get word out, but then it ceases to be helpful after a short period of time when the anime, or game in this case, has gotten all the exposure it will need. At that point, neither anime nor this game needs pirates, the people who actually bought them are able to spread the word just fine. No, it is not worth it and it never has been or will be worth it once the period where exposure is needed is over. Once a product has enough buyers, or patrons in this case, those are all it will ever need to get the word out.

Everything that one could have possibly been said has NOT been said, I have not seen somebody say that morality does not exist yet.
I mean, they would be wrong if they did say it. As limited as it may be, and even among some of us pirates, there is some degree of morality. Morality is why I limit my targets for piracy, because I just wouldn't feel right, not that I would for any other target, if I had a method without piracy. I would feel worse with any legitimate source available, free or paid, than I would if I had no alternative. I still feel bad doing it when I have no choice except to ignore the target, but I feel worse when I do have a choice.
 

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Not true, I still actively do it, it's just this one I specifically avoid pirating at all while others depend on whether I can even get them legally or if the developer is doing something stupid that wastes development time. Nobody is telling anyone what to do, all anyone is doing is spreading the truth about piracy in relation to this game, that it IS hurting Selebus. You're probably going to be seeing this issue every time someone speaks up about the people who complain about it or whenever there's a leak. Why this game? Because it is literally free after two weeks, other games aren't ever free.


Just download, it will read the files that are in appdata and you can play from there.


It's too big, Android doesn't like huge apps, use Joiplay.


More than 0% is not enough. He's also said that piracy has decreased the number of incoming patrons specifically when a leaked version is released, which hurts him and cancels out any positive it has ever done. The time that it is helpful for has long passed. I'm not arguing against him, my arguments are specifically based on his words. He actually DOES upload the public version here when leakers don't leak. I agree, a delay would be fair, it's not like this game is never free. Even better if there could be enforcement of this delay.

That's why you advertise it, like Selebus does on multiple platforms. The people who see this will play it and then will spread the word, then more will come in a repeating cycle that continually brings more. That's how it's supposed to be, what Selebus wants. No, it isn't unmatched, there are plenty of ways to do it without piracy, otherwise Selebus wouldn't be so vocal against it. He literally just gave us his blessing to keep complaining about it, he wouldn't do that if he didn't have other options, that would be shooting himself in the foot.

No, in the early days it did, but that time is over. Piracy has a limited usefulness and that usefulness passes very quickly and then becomes a threat. There is no piracy of any other kind, piracy is one thing, theft of an electronic product, piracy of ANY product is bad, full stop. Actually, piracy in anime works the same as piracy here, it helps in the early days to get word out, but then it ceases to be helpful after a short period of time when the anime, or game in this case, has gotten all the exposure it will need. At that point, neither anime nor this game needs pirates, the people who actually bought them are able to spread the word just fine. No, it is not worth it and it never has been or will be worth it once the period where exposure is needed is over. Once a product has enough buyers, or patrons in this case, those are all it will ever need to get the word out.


I mean, they would be wrong if they did say it. As limited as it may be, and even among some of us pirates, there is some degree of morality. Morality is why I limit my targets for piracy, because I just wouldn't feel right, not that I would for any other target, if I had a method without piracy. I would feel worse with any legitimate source available, free or paid, than I would if I had no alternative. I still feel bad doing it when I have no choice except to ignore the target, but I feel worse when I do have a choice.
I tend to use F95 as a place to discover and try out new games. For those games I find especially compelling, for those developers I want to support, I will go to Patreon or SubscribeStar. Personally, I'm really over extended--giving more per month than I can easily afford on my current income. I need to drop those I'm no longer playing regularly. I've actually added that monthly amount as one of my Patreon goals, in the hopes that my game will allow me to support other developers.
 

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I tend to use F95 as a place to discover and try out new games. For those games I find especially compelling, for those developers I want to support, I will go to Patreon or SubscribeStar. Personally, I'm really over extended--giving more per month than I can easily afford on my current income. I need to drop those I'm no longer playing regularly. I've actually added that monthly amount as one of my Patreon goals, in the hopes that my game will allow me to support other developers.
I just use it when I can't find a source for a game that I can buy from. It's a backup source of sorts, usually Japanese games with either official or fan translations, games that are technically only available legitimately in Japan. That or when a developer decides to do something stupid like trying to prevent modding back in content they removed (School of Lust).
 
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I tend to use F95 as a place to discover and try out new games. For those games I find especially compelling, for those developers I want to support, I will go to Patreon or SubscribeStar. Personally, I'm really over extended--giving more per month than I can easily afford on my current income. I need to drop those I'm no longer playing regularly. I've actually added that monthly amount as one of my Patreon goals, in the hopes that my game will allow me to support other developers.
I took a look at your patreon and for some quick feedback, seeing your very first patreon goal being to donate to other creators I'm not really sure why I'd want to donate to you as opposed to just supporting others. Patreons usually exist to support the project in some way, while it's noble to want to support others, all you're really offering is a bigger cut to patreon by filtering my donation through a middleman.

My initial impression is one screenshot and a promise to support other creators, which I can just do myself while ensuring they get a bigger cut. I don't really see any reason to support you specifically. I'd suggest revamping it a bit to sell your project more.

Hopefully this is helpful.

Edit: I agree with your reason for using F95. If there was an anti-piracy forum that was as good a resource for discussing and discovering adult games I'd happily use that. Unfortunately for right now this is what we have.
 
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this is an unofficial android port Lessons in Love [v0.19.0 Part 1] APK - MEGA

Hey, seems like there's a mix-up, this link leads to Leap of Faith. If possible, could you fix it please?

Thanks for your work btw, enjoy your ports.
 
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I took a look at your patreon and for some quick feedback, seeing your very first patreon goal being to donate to other creators I'm not really sure why I'd want to donate to you as opposed to just supporting others. Patreons usually exist to support the project in some way, while it's noble to want to support others, all you're really offering is a bigger cut to patreon by filtering my donation through a middleman.
Good point. It was more of a random thought that I had, since I'm already paying out that one "goal" would be to cover that. A much more useful goal is to cover the cost of buying assets and tools to use in the game.
My initial impression is one screenshot and a promise to support other creators, which I can just do myself while ensuring they get a bigger cut. I don't really see any reason to support you specifically. I'd suggest revamping it a bit to sell your project more.
Far enough. I have been tweaking things, changing character models, changing what it looks like outside. Tomorrow, I'll be doing the renders on this first scene. Many times they recommend not starting with Patreon until you have some real work to show. I decided I wanted to get all the tools in order as I was working.
Hopefully this is helpful.
Very much so. Thank you.
Edit: I agree with your reason for using F95. If there was an anti-piracy forum that was as good a resource for discussing and discovering adult games I'd happily use that. Unfortunately for right now this is what we have.
I wouldn't be making my own game if it were not for F95. This is where I got to know a number of players and developers. Where I got to see what decisions developers have made. I've also seen how good it is to have a developer have a presence here. I hope I don't feel the need to retreat to Discord and Patreon/Subscribe forums. I've seen how it is sometimes necessary if the developer is to continue the creative process.

I was telling a close friend about the game today. She's excited for me. She even suggested a few people with whom I could consult for aspects of the story that may be outside of my personal experience.

At this early stage, this first demo will be openly available. Once I've proved my ability to make the thing, I'll still have free levels. I'll see to it my work makes it here at the appropriate time.
 
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I've also seen how good it is to have a developer have a presence here. I hope I don't feel the need to retreat to Discord and Patreon/Subscribe forums. I've seen how it is sometimes necessary if the developer is to continue the creative process.
I'll offer some generic advice that is good for many aspects of life.

Don't lock youself into a vacuum of voices. If you retreat to only one location, such as your patreon, you may not hear the type of criticism you need. If you hear "only that", you may begin to believe "only that". Same is true of religion, facebook, reddit, etc. What you surround yourself with is eventually what you believe. (for most people.)

If you can surround yourself with people of various points of views, who can have rational discussions, you'll probably have a rough (honesty can suck), but meaningful time.
Vacuums can be great for praise, but then when you leave that little nook of the world, you'll wonder why people don't agree with you/think you suck. This day and age has been great for witnessing the Allegory of the Cave/Plato's Cave over and over and over.

Best of luck, and stay safe.
 

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I'll offer some generic advice that is good for many aspects of life.

Don't lock youself into a vacuum of voices. If you retreat to only one location, such as your patreon, you may not hear the type of criticism you need. If you hear "only that", you may begin to believe "only that". Same is true of religion, facebook, reddit, etc. What you surround yourself with is eventually what you believe. (for most people.)

If you can surround yourself with people of various points of views, who can have rational discussions, you'll probably have a rough (honesty can suck), but meaningful time.
Vacuums can be great for praise, but then when you leave that little nook of the world, you'll wonder why people don't agree with you/think you suck. This day and age has been great for witnessing the Allegory of the Cave/Plato's Cave over and over and over.

Best of luck, and stay safe.
Thanks! As I said, despite knowing that mine will probably be a niche product, I intend to remain here--I've just seen developers get overwhelmed here so I'm trying to have realistic expectations about the good and bad of F95 forums. ;)

I was going to attend a truth or dare game on Zoom in about an hour, but it looks like it's been cancelled--more posing & rendering time!
 

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Good point. It was more of a random thought that I had, since I'm already paying out that one "goal" would be to cover that. A much more useful goal is to cover the cost of buying assets and tools to use in the game.

Far enough. I have been tweaking things, changing character models, changing what it looks like outside. Tomorrow, I'll be doing the renders on this first scene. Many times they recommend not starting with Patreon until you have some real work to show. I decided I wanted to get all the tools in order as I was working.

Very much so. Thank you.

I wouldn't be making my own game if it were not for F95. This is where I got to know a number of players and developers. Where I got to see what decisions developers have made. I've also seen how good it is to have a developer have a presence here. I hope I don't feel the need to retreat to Discord and Patreon/Subscribe forums. I've seen how it is sometimes necessary if the developer is to continue the creative process.

I was telling a close friend about the game today. She's excited for me. She even suggested a few people with whom I could consult for aspects of the story that may be outside of my personal experience.

At this early stage, this first demo will be openly available. Once I've proved my ability to make the thing, I'll still have free levels. I'll see to it my work makes it here at the appropriate time.
I mean, you'll be fine as long as you don't really need to talk directly to the developer in this case, Selebus has basically retreated from F95, with the exception of the occasional pop in, so he wouldn't have to watch his game getting pirated.

I'll offer some generic advice that is good for many aspects of life.

Don't lock youself into a vacuum of voices. If you retreat to only one location, such as your patreon, you may not hear the type of criticism you need. If you hear "only that", you may begin to believe "only that". Same is true of religion, facebook, reddit, etc. What you surround yourself with is eventually what you believe. (for most people.)

If you can surround yourself with people of various points of views, who can have rational discussions, you'll probably have a rough (honesty can suck), but meaningful time.
Vacuums can be great for praise, but then when you leave that little nook of the world, you'll wonder why people don't agree with you/think you suck. This day and age has been great for witnessing the Allegory of the Cave/Plato's Cave over and over and over.

Best of luck, and stay safe.
It is, but on the downside for NOT getting away from F95, he has to watch his game get pirated if he comes here, which he did say was not doing good things for his mental and/or emotional health. It is better to retreat off of a site that is giving good criticism if that site is also causing such issues for the sake of one's well being. That comes first above good criticism. Besides, some of us who give good criticism are ones who will follow him to whatever other site he wishes to communicate on. I've been using his SubscribeStar if I needed to talk to him and his Discord if it is absolutely urgent that I do so. I do like the game a significant amount, but I am not a yes man, I WILL call out any issue with the game that needs fixed. That said, things like the complaints about the horror aspect or the need for sound I will not say because they will do nothing for the game except make it a shell of what it once was if lessened.

That is true, but I'll also offer the corollary that you, as a dev, should be confident in exactly what you want to do, and how the story will play out, before you start, and don't let any loud complainers derail your vision. Like you know what, everyone has an opinion, and the negative people tend to have the loudest voices. I've seen quite a few devs either change their game in a way they don't really feel enthusiastic about, just because a handful of loud people try to browbeat the dev to change it, or they abandon the game altogether to try to chase a different idea that everybody likes.

That is frankly impossible. Pick any game here, even the most succesfull, and you will hear plenty of complaints. People around here are free to offer conscructive criticism about whether a certain plot point or character action is confusing, or seems out of character, but ultimately everyone has their own preferences, and you can never please everybody, or probably even most people. The best you can hope for is a core of supporters that mostly like what you are doing, and just ignore those that want to complain. I think unless you make a game decision that is universally hated, a la My Sister My Roomate, it is best to stick to your guns no matter what fans tell you. You are the one making the story, not them. They are free to make their own cookie cutter, family of virgins story that they like and see how it does.

Me, for instance, I am not into female protagonist VNs. I've tried a handful of the most popular and they just don't do it for me, but lots of people like them, so devs should listen to those that enjoy those types of games. Also, if any of your characters so much as glance at another woman, or if they are not all innocent virgins (even the mothers, haha), you will get endless complaints, and threats to "stop playing" your game. Let them stop playing it.

Ultimately, the most sucessful devs, except for a few notable exceptions (DPC, Mr. Dots), get more and more fans by being a good sport, hanging around F95 from time to time chatting with the fans, which encourages some to go to your Patreon and subscribe, and mostly ignoring, or coming up with snappy comebacks, for the legion of trolls that like to populate these forums.
Absolutely, as I writer, I could not agree more with having a plan you yourself want to implement and an idea of how to do so before starting. I absolutely NEVER go into writing with nothing planned ahead of time.

Thanks! As I said, despite knowing that mine will probably be a niche product, I intend to remain here--I've just seen developers get overwhelmed here so I'm trying to have realistic expectations about the good and bad of F95 forums. ;)

I was going to attend a truth or dare game on Zoom in about an hour, but it looks like it's been cancelled--more posing & rendering time!
Ah yes, posing and rendering, my favorite activity. :rolleyes: Seriously, though, I hate the tedium, but the result is worth it. I've been doing quite a bit of it in CharaStudio lately and I'm getting some pretty good results, especially with laying hair across map objects so it looks like it is laying down naturally. That can be pretty hard to do with no collision between characters and maps, you're more likely to overshoot and clip through the object.
 
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That is true, but I'll also offer the corollary that you, as a dev, should be confident in exactly what you want to do, and how the story will play out, before you start, and don't let any loud complainers derail your vision.
I'll slightly disagree with this statement on the bases that it misses a needed nuance badly.

I am a developer, have been for over 15 years. As a developer, you should have solid requirements. No argument from that from me. But how do you get those solid requirements? Solid peer reviewing. Revisions happen.

Now as a "Writer" of stories, however, which feels like more of what you were getting at, yes. You need to be confident in writing what you want to write. But the best stories also get revised and criticized to help make them better. I would advise anyone writing to have a small handful of trusted critics to help you stay true to your intention, and as you imply, Smarmint, to not be dissuaded from your vision. I hinted at this originally when I suggested whom to surround yourself with.

Once you start to let the masses guide the direction, you are no longer in control of your story. It becomes more like a role play campain, and will never be the vision you thought of, and seldom works well because the format doesn't really support it. How many good stories have we seen turned into crap movies, all because someone else had influence on it.
 
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