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Ahh I see where this is coming from now.Yah I'd say that accurately sums it up - for me it needn't be the endgame to be out of place - it's simply the wrong order.
Sharing/swinging setups that lead to NTR are entirely believable, realistic, and make for good storytelling.
NTR setups that lead to "sharing" are really a fictional creation in ntr lover's minds - no one outside an ntr crowd would call that "swinging" or "sharing", that's just limp noodle of a bf/husband getting walked all over and slowly acquiescing.
The idea that anyone would personally prefer that outcome for themselves over one that involves more agency is also pure fiction. I don't doubt there are guys who would get off on their SO fucking others to a humilating degree; but you mean to tell me those same guys would be explicitly opposed to their SO doing the same if it was at their request? I don't buy it - this is is what the 3rd-party-ntr-lover wants to see, not how people in relationships actually think.
That's not a "fictional only" set up though. I myself, have been in Ari's situation as a PoS! I've cheated of partners in the past and a few partners ago I got caught. Afterward we talked about it, she decided to stay and the relationship opened up more once I talked to her about my lack of jealously in relationships and my need to constantly push for more in the bedroom. After the relationship opened up and we invited others into it, from strangers at first to her finding out that she got off on me having sex with her friends and watching. Me on the other hand, I'm not down for watching. She can do what she wants, I just don't wanna hear about it. So the way you see it, I'd be the guy that lacks agency since I don't care to hear about her nights out.
Most games on here, you can tell that the writer has no actual experience in what he's writing because of how by the numbers the NTR is. It's always the same. Thousands of stories and all play out just alike. Starting off slow, with teasing then gamifying the NTR into the situation as that you grind into the juicy bits. So much so that people start to believe that this is how stuff works irl and its not. This game... It just isn't the normal stuff you get in the average manhwa, or NTR game. NTR games are typically copy pasta as far as premise and execution goes. LTNI did it in a not so by the numbers way, which is more realistic for those that understand that real life relationships rarely follow a guidebook on the order in which a relationship evolves. Comes off as if the Dev actually has some experience in the subject he's writing about. If not, then he's just really good at his job. I mean he has to be considering the amount of text we type out per post lol. But yea, there's not a set path to these things. Sometimes people get pregnant and THEN start dating after a one night stand, that's another personal example...