Hopefully this gets addressed in 0.4 (which I doubt), but its very strange how much control an NPC lacks when they're dominant in a noncon scene. If you're doing a virgin run, you're basically never going to lose your virginity, because if you finger yourself the NPC doesnt have the ability to just override that and just go straight for your pussy regardless of what you're doing (much like the PC has that ability). Instead the NPC doesnt know how to respond. If they desire your pussy but cant get access to it they're stuck hotdogging/thigh fucking you (I call it the dry hump loop) and they just keep starting and stoping until you let them have access to your pussy. This also occurs if you have something that is sealed enchanted to cover you pussy. Even if they're a character with magical affinity, they dont have the ability to unseal your clothing, so they're stuck in the dry hump loop. I think at one point there was a mod that corrected this behavior, but mods like that get broken which each update.