Followed this game for along time, really enjoyed the roleplay and building an army of slaves to tend the mansion was a great idea but it seems now I can't play more then 10 minutes before it sieves up and nothing responds. hit f5 to save and it says i can't and can no longer advance. Is there a fix for this playing it on an I9 processor and from an ssd so figured it would work but nothing.
Do you have any old mods installed?
That is one thing that I have seen that will cause the game to freeze up like that.
Pretty much any mod that is more than 1 or 2 years old might not work any more. I can't remember the names, but I had one or two mods that were doing things like that to me, when I played.
Other than that the only things I can suggest are the usual suspects: corrupt save, corrupt game files, or Java issue.
Try a new game and try downloading the game again from another source than your normal ones. If you are using the JAR version, try running the EXE version if you can, it has the needed version of Java built into it.