Not an expert on the subject, but my read on public pubic preferences is that the untamed, ungroomed bush look is the least favorite look, even less than full bald, except some people who have a special interest in full blooming hair
Except the most vocal people on the subject are single people, incels, and people who have never been in a long lasting relationship.
As a 40 year old father of 2, with a couple of ex's under my belt, and a handful of rather lenthy relationships, women drop the fully shaven act about a month after they move in. And by the first pregnancy you better get used to it.
Also it's really strange to see those few random comments about pubic hair somehow making it more difficult to go down on a woman. To me that just sounds like someone didn't know wtf they were doing. If they are licking hair they are in the wrong fucking spot.
Women who are dating, outside of of the hippy/nature girl times do tend to groom heavy when dating. Sure. That's just not true of people in relationships though. Usually at least you can expect a weekly/bi-weekly trim. Kids, work, and everything else makes it a hassle.