i think places who use bouncers not onlyuse them bcs they are big but bcs ther scare ppl before doing something wrong ....lets just say if you put a skinny guy and big one who you will be your chosse to fight against? so for a woman is even more of a challenge when you need to put in a fight vs a man.......i dont say they cant i only saying i prefer someone who looks like a amazon and not someone who looks like a spyder monkey