I just don't agree with you on certain things honestly. If there are characterz that the MC can fuck and they are getting fucked by others characters and there's nothing you can do about it then I would put that under the umbrella of unavoidable Netorare or sharing.
And I don't think not wanting Li's or harem candidates to fuck others characters is insecure. I just don't want that or want it to be avoidable. And it made clear if it's not.
And I don't know what you mean is going over my head. I've made my stance clear and you're putting what you think in what I've said like I believe that even though I've said I haven't. I'm trying to not be disrespectful because I was before with implying the dev was lying and I apologized for that. But now you are. Chill out.
So here's my stance. If characters that will be in the harem have unavoidable sex scenes not involving the MC during the present the time frame of when the story starts then I consider that under the umbrella of unavoidable netorare and or sharing. And other people do too. And that's fine if the dev wants to do that. And also fine if you disagree with me.
Well I would like to clarify something. (this isn't to argue but maybe it makes you understand better)
The story is about a corporation that, in the shadows, is capturing girls and turning them into sex dolls. (which are basically sex androids made of humans but mind controlled) Then they will be sold off as sex droids to people.
The current turned girls have scenes in the "years ago" part. Which is before MC is of age and not even introduced yet. He doesn't even know them besides maybe Vanessa who is the sister of his crush. MC has no clue even what is happening.
(since I know nothing of the future this is my best guess) Once the MC figures out this is happening, he will go after the corporation and either turn them back or take them for himself. He might also fail in this depending on your choices hence the bad end.
There are more girls that MC will not even know that will be turned. He only knows a few of them and hates half of them. This is why it is not netorare. Since girls aren't being stolen from him really, but he will steal them eventually if you go for the harem.
This makes it netori not netorare since you steal others girls.
The game isn't also purely about the MC having sex with girls. It rather is a story with sex in it. But the main focus is way more on the story then the sex.
Are they fucked by others before you steal them yes. And if this is not acceptable for you. Sure that is understandable for me. And not a game for you.