Turns out, the Gamer Path for Bree restricts her to 50 kink making all harems with her completely undoable. I don't know how to revert back to the Maid Path if it is even possible.
wiki says home harem requires 25 submission, 50 to 59 lesbianism, and 70 love
so it should be possible on the gamer route
50 kink cap makes it impossible to make her into a sex slave. and impossible to give her a collar, and call you master
that said... yea, this game is all about being fucked over by little things like that. getting one ruined save after another, as you repeatedly restart the game.
really unfortunate because this game has loads of potential.
but this insistence on screwing you over is just annoying