Except that you go to the band harem first, and then the family harem, Sasha must be in a sex slave state at this time (there are events that can make her a sex slave, no slave collar is required), otherwise there is currently no harem that needs to wear a slave collar .
After Cassidy investigates the incident in the office, there will be an option of whether she is a pet or you are a pet (unless you are fired). And you have to wait until Dwayne dies in Aletta's headshot before you can decide whether she is a girlfriend or a sex slave identity. So don’t worry about it now, just play happily.
Anyway, there are many things that hurt your confidence along the way, which are more important than these two, and are easier to ignore

. There are also some logical problems, which you will encounter later. Maybe Sam is not married yet, and you may Have to start over.
Don't believe me? I just decided to give up the save which is close to 90% complete. This is my save for the 3rd round of restart in the past two months.