I wouldn't be so dismissive of people's complaints and it isn't whining.
The main one I would look at is the fact that we keep getting new characters, but rarely see others finished. Out of a cast of how many women...only three have had their stories completed since marriages were introduced, what, three or four updates ago? That's a legitimate complaint.
An ideal situation, you would have a girl introduced, get her into the game proper and then complete her story. So you'd have three updates and have a new girl. What's actually happening is new girl introduced, in the game, new girl introduced, in the game, new girl introduced and so on. There's no completing her story.
Look, no one wants to bully or is going to bully a developer, they have legitimate complaints, that should, if addressed, improve the quality of the game. So don't be the guy telling people to stop complaining. Because that actually doesn't help.