Yo, important information that will just get lost, but maybe it will help someone. You CANNOT mix and match hair/eye color with children, at least as of .41. Children will either be their mother's coloring or the father's coloring. Binary choice.
If Man is the father and the child is Male, they will come out looking any color. This is a big lie. Save, reload, and you will see their actual coloring (Man or mother). If one of Man's children is the father and the child is Male, the child will come out as the unwashable, dirty native, not what I'm assuming is "Young Man".
Women seem to be born correctly, coming out the right color without having to save and reload. Likewise, for children born of two natives, the women are born into the (well really only available) correct model.
Source: Spent yesterday breeding to get blue eyes and black hair. After extensive testing, 100% of children had either one child's coloring or the other, no combination of the two.