Thanks for the info.
WOW! ok, 1st how did you get 90 CHARM? Even if you buy it, I think it caps at like 84 or something, doesn't it?
Try to stay clean as much as possible, so that's not likely it. ;-)
The "(girl) .....doesn't like me after I tried to explain her chores."---with randomness, fails are common (apparently even w 90 (!) charm! so if 1 (charm attempt) fails, does it snowball so the next one is more likely to fail? where does it end? How does happiness & Affection factor in? [I've read the Wiki, but it leaves a lot out---& not sure what's implemented & what's a WIP.]
With Reb (MALEVOLENT ugh!) it's impossible to keep everybody hi happiness----but if they're neutral or above, does that affect likelyhood of charm working? [everything seems 2 FAIL on high willpower (BITCHES FROM HELL!] so, let's assume WP of <40;
Oh speaking of trinkets, need give have more TEDDY BEARs!
(I only know of 1) Chocolates/trinkets, more of that random hit/miss thing, I'd say *LESS* than 1/3 actually do anything-----nothing that comes close to making up for a FEMINIST or MALEVOLENT (or both)
Besides the obvious shower, Is there anything (cheats aside lol!) that we can do that doesn't cost a FORTUNE? [to increase chances of success] [mostly $$$ goes to weapons/armor/TRAINING/buy more slaves/bath (the expensive bath helps w healing) ***TRIPS*** [$500+/trip up north!] hiring/paying for mercs (try as I might [many playthroughs now]) Mercs die, have to keep replacing.
maybe a short list might help myself as well as others. [assume clean, or close to it]
BTW "explain chores" is 1 of few ways I know of to reduce willpower [sex options are out if she's neutral or at all upset] OR, increase discipline.
Thanks again! Thought maybe I was just having too much bad luck, but maybe there's more going on!
(BTW I did well w Lovisa [not this run, but another one] BIGGEST problem seems to be Aria (FEMINIST) &/or Rebecca (MALEVOLENT) they make the entire house a lot tougher to control! Alas, both have Quests, so you have to keep them for a while.