This is just the problem. Few people come here to comment if they're pissed off. A large number of players hit the ignore button when the tag on the list is NTR. They have no interest in starting to investigate whether it's avoidablle or not. If a game has the option of NTR, it already ruins the game for many and the enthusiasm to even download that shit. My experience on the other hand prevents me from downloading a game with avoidable NTR, when too many games leak that shit to the non-NTR side. So no trust at all that the shit won't show up. I have the same thing, that the feeling is lost quite effectively if there is a NTR tag in the list. I don't even want to think that the women in the game will also be made NTR. So even the slightest chance of that shit will make me hit the ignore button. It doesn't matter if you make it avoidable, because the game has that shit, so it's not worth touching.
Tip five. Never put NTR and Harem in the same game. Use one or the other, but NOT both. Worst case scenario, you drive both halves of the audience away from your game. Now you're an NTR dev so there's also a bunch of players who will put all your games on the ignore list automatically. Without touching them, as you made the mistake of putting NTR in your game.