I wonder if some folks who missed out on the harem. Was because of Grace. For some reason, unlike everyone else. When we banged and I said "I love you" to her. It booted me entirely out of harem, with no warning. Which was unexpected since the situation with Olga. Which was directly after Grace. I was able to bring up her joining the harem. Everyone else but Grace, gave me a chance to mention it.
Was weird when I made it to the party, and noticed I could only give her the shoutout. Until I went back to a close enough save, and tried it without saying it. What's even more weird, is I know there's a way to bring up the harem to her. Using URM showed it, but I couldn't trigger it normally. Suppose past choices or something

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