That doesn't matter, if anything that makes it worse. That shit shouldn't be possible other than on an NTR path imo.
I think this is exactly where we disagree conceptually.
In narrative terms, intention and agency are not a detail — they are the defining line between categories. NTR is about a character choosing someone else, emotionally or sexually, in a way that replaces or undermines the primary relationship.
A character being externally controlled, hypnotized, drugged, or otherwise stripped of agency is a completely different narrative mechanism. It can be disturbing, uncomfortable, or unwanted — but it is not the same thing as betrayal, replacement, or infidelity, because there is no will behind it.
You can absolutely say “I don’t want to see loss-of-agency content at all”, and that’s a fair preference. But calling it NTR collapses two very different narrative logics into one label.
And just to be clear — I don’t like NTR myself, and I even avoid the NTS options in this game as long as they stay optional. So I’m not defending this from a fetish angle, but from a narrative one.
So yes — it does matter, because intention is what defines whether a story is about a character turning away from someone, or about something being done to them against their will.