I can't leave you alone for 20 minutes, you give me a lot of work to answer you! (I'm kidding, I love to answer all of you)
The "No Other Men" rule always irks me. If for one side I can understand it, I would feel pretty shitty if I had a harem and other men were welcomed by my girls. But, as I never was blessed/cursed with an Harem (tried 2 girlfriends at the same time, almost died, twice) I can't really relate to how the girls would accept it.
Hey, I'm not saying they don't exist, but are they based on the freedom of the girls as we see in our fantasies here? Are they complacent with the sharing without jealousy? Well, people free from jealousy aren't that common, it takes a very special type of personality to go to "I love you but I don't mind to share you with any girl you want.". This, this isn't common, or if it is I've had the worst of lucks. Any women I've been involved with always made sure that I was only with her (with several degrees of success, until I learned to stop trying). Also, I know that swingers are more common than most people is aware, but this isn't about swinging. Harems go way further into the relationship and feelings department, unlike swinging.
So we have this fantasies, these stories that allow us to dream of a scenario that almost no man will ever live. Unless the girls are forced, but that's a whole other subject that doesn't belong here. Then people come and want to create drama out of relationships that somehow do the opposite and instead of having a jealousy free life, people are actively trying to find jealousy everywhere. I feel that that is the antithesis of the premises of this fantasy. So, please, stop trying to find the green eyed monster of jealousy everywhere and anywhere.
In this case, this story is being handled with a sole focus on acceptance and inclusivity, with clear boundaries based on the mutual respect. I see absolutely no room for or need of even considering the three letter bane of my existence.
Thanks for reading my morning rant.
Peace
The "there will be no other men" rule is precisely to make it clear that there will be no NTR in My Dorm, you know this conversation about poor Eileen (if she is a slut or if that phrase is NTR) comes up from time to time in this thread.
I don't think harems as we devs posit them can exist in reality. No matter how much magic wand the MC has between his legs and no matter how much he knows what to say to each girl at any given time, finding 28 girls who want to share seems impossible to me. I have never found even two.
Polyamorous relationships are another story altogether, more plausible, but there I could argue for our three most hated letters even if the situation is not designed for jealousy.
You can think it's NTR. You're just wrong.
NTR, or rather Netorare specifically is about the main character being a cuck. In other words, you are actively having your significant other stolen out from under you.
If you aren't in a relationship with the person, and in fact are in a relationship with someone else then it's not being cucked and it's not NTR. It's called being an ex.
A feeling of jealously alone does not create NTR.
I totally agree with you, but I would like to add a nuance.
To me, in the world of AVNs, it could also be considered NTR if the MC has expressed to a LI that he wants to be with her (through a player's choice) and between that time and the time they start the relationship, she is with another man.
Nowadays relationships are nothing but joke. If people in their teens think they will live happily ever after with their lover then they are wrong. Only a handful of them end up marrying each other. Remaining breaks up because of reasons such as going far away, cheating etc.
So these people know that the chances are almost zero for relationship to work out but still they go for it because of SEX. Yeah, it all boils down to SEX. A wise decision would be to get a job and be well settled before dating but where's the fun in that?
There are other girls who ain't virgins but you didn't hear anyone complain about them. Why only Eileen? Think about it.
Eileen isn't one to take relationships seriously and that's why dated multiple men. MC is no saint either. He is a slut too. He fucked around and was in a FWB relationship with a girl.
If it was upto me IRL I wouldn't want girls like emma or Daphne to end up with a guy like MC but it is playboys for whom girls usually go for when they are young and carefree.
You are contradicting yourself. You say it's normal for relationships to break up, and on the other hand you say that Eileen doesn't take relationships seriously and that's why she's dated several men.
Think about this other scenario: Eileen takes relationships seriously, but every single attempt she's had in the last two years has gone wrong. It doesn't matter if it's been his fault, her fault, both of them, or that the stars didn't align. It may have been during the first date when they discovered that they are not compatible characters. Maybe she has a hidden romantic inside and doesn't want to sleep with anyone until the third or fourth date with a new partner, maybe he didn't want to wait and cheated on her. We don't and can't take anything for granted with one sentence. If the first attempt doesn't go well, what should Eileen have done according to you? Not try again?
I think this is the first time I read that a man is a slut for having been with several girls. The usual thing is to call him Macho. I would like to remind you that the MC tried to formalize the relationship with Saira, by the way. It was she who didn't want to do it to try to protect herself. I would never call the MC a playboy. He is driven by feelings, otherwise he would have already called Sophie, the hairdresser, who made it very clear to him what she wanted.
FatGiant
I accidentally activated the message with the translation open.
TropecitaGames
You're distorting things.
What do you think the jealousy on a porn tag could be about, sexuality?
"I've dated a few guys since we broke up, but no one has satisfied me as much as you... no way"
Right after this sentence, we made love in the toilet.
How was I supposed to feel in this situation?
I am not distorting anything. I'm just telling you that the definition of NTR doesn't apply here for two reasons:
There is no jealousy on the part of either of you over things that happened while you were not together.
English is not our first language in either your case or mine, but the word
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always indicates intentionality, a planned thing. Since there is no intentionality to cause jealousy, the definition does not apply.
Flattered??? You both broke up the relationship, both had other sex partners, you reconnect and the girl tells you, that you were the best she ever had............ what else can you feel but a compliment? What praise is more worthy man? the one from a virgin that never knew anyone else, or that of someone that has experience and knows what she's talking about? To me, the answer is clear, but I've always preferred that type of woman, they know what's what, 10/10 would repeat.
The myth of inexperience and chastity is just that, a myth. An unreal desire of never being compared, it only shows the fragility of that masculine ego. Don't be that guy.
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Peace
Eileen shows that even though the years have passed she is still interested in the MC. She has discovered that there is nothing better. And we don't just mean Gandalf's scepter between his legs. No one has ever made her feel the way he has. Not in any way. But Eileen knew the MC who left, not the one who has returned. The one who's back tells her he's still a romantic but he's had an FwB. She also knows she can't overwhelm him by jumping on his neck the second day after returning from college. They need to reconnect. And she wants to fill the gap of that FwB, and go from there.
Everyone has to lose their virginity at some point. Many people have the fantasy of virgins and teach them, others have the fantasy of MILFs because of the experience accumulated by them. But we are not in the middle ages anymore and I don't think that because a girl has lost her virginity she is tainted.
To be honest, I'm not paying for this game.
I have a hard time forming meaningful sentences.
Despite this, I think I expressed myself very well.
Many developers use such tricks to avoid putting the ntr tag in their games.
But they weren't together...it's all bullshit.
The definition of NTR is clear.
- NTR [Designed to cause jealousy by having the romantic interest involved with someone other than the MC.]
"I still think it's ntr. Because the main focus here is jealousy.
There is no emphasis here on whether to be in a relationship or not.
It does not write anything about whether love interest and Mc should be in relationship order for something to be ntr."
FatGiant
If that sort of thing is okay with you, then I can only be happy for you.
But not me mate.
I think I treat paying players the same as non-paying players. I don't understand what you mean. All of you (paying or not-paying players) are welcome to express your opinions.
I think your English is good enough for a non-native. I'm also a non-native
See my previous answer to you in this post and the definition of Designed. It's not a dev trick. It's playing by the rules. If in My Dorm you see a LI fucking (or even kissing) another man, I'll be the first to put the NTR tag. It won't happen
