Zara Scarlet

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I simply explained why it is written "hotwife" instead of "hot wife", that I think that the game lost its way and devolved into boring "wife fucks someone else, 'haha cuck i wont sleep with you', wife fucks someone else, 'haha cuck, i wont do it with you' " and repeat is something I already said earlier *shrug* It's sad, but thats what this is now.
Essentially Hotwifing and Cuckolding are two sides of the same coin. The cuckold hotwives his partner, whereas she cuckolds him. You can't have one without the other. Generally when a man hotwives his partner, he allows her to have sex with other men, from which both partners derive mutual satisfaction. He though, is generally not allowed to have sex with other women. It's all about her receiving pleasure, and him getting off on allowing her to do it. Hotwifing/cuckolding can though have a humiliation element, with the wife belittling her husband, by comparing him unfavorably with her lovers. And whilst this may not be a part of all hotwife/cuckold relationships, it is a recognised sub-category within this lifestyle. And this can extend to the wife witholding penetration completely from her partner, to further belittle him. So I think it's perfectly within the context of this game, to refer to Bella as a hotwife.

It's been very clear from early on, that the game was likely to follow this path, and involve the more extreme elements of hotwifing. What part of the 'humiliation' option didn't you get? That was there long before you could actually use it. So the implication of it being there at all, was that the MC was inevitably going to get badly humiliated, and that generally means being constantly belittled and put in chastity, in these types of scenarios.

Yes, the Dev could have made this into a different kind of hotwifing game. But since he set out his stall early on, that the MC was going to be a classic cuck, who is increasingly humiliated by his wife, why would he do that?
 

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The entire point of a hotwife lifestyle is that no matter what, the wife comes back to the husband, and him "reclaiming" her, in this "game" she feels that touching her husband outside him cleaning up her entire body from cum is beneath her, none of her interactions with him are that of a loving wife, he's just a cameraman and janitor now.

The dev should rename this "game" already to something that reflects what the game is actually about.
That's a very generalised interpretation of what hotwifing can be. There are subcategories within the lifestyle, that don't necessarily follow that pattern. And this is one of them. In any case, it's not necessary for the cuckold to 'reclaim' his hotwife in the bedroom. Their relationship extends beyond just sex. She chooses to spend the bulk of her life with him, whereas with her lovers, it's purely about sex.
 

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Can anyone facing bugs on these new update I can't load the previous saves and also cannot enter the volleyball tournament
 

Zara Scarlet

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I want to warning NTS lover players. It's the NTR (with humiliating and another :poop:) game that started as NTS, be aware.
This game has no netorare in it. Both husband and wife have mutually decided to follow this lifestyle. Netorare is when one partner is forced to accept the other cheating on them, albeit getting sexual pleasure from that, whilst hating it at the same time. Humiliation can equally be a part of both netorase and netorare. The difference is, you choose it in the former, but not in the latter.
 

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MyHotwife, I loved this update, just too short, lol. The doctor sure did ask hubby all the right questions, so I hope soon hubby will take a big walk on the other side and he got a good start in the right direction with Charlotte.
Personally, I would love to see wifey slide to the cheating side (I love cheating women) and see it play out from her perspective. Of course, you would have to make it optional to keep the NTR haters (and there are a lot of them) from ripping the house apart.
Hummm, has wifey been buttfucked by her bulls yet? I forgot. If she does, hubby has to clean her ass out too, to further his humiliation.
Much as I love cheating whores, it doesn't look to me like the wife will cheat on the MC (at least not anymore). Technically, you could say she did it a bit, early on. By not completely confessing everything that was happening to her. But I think at some point, she guessed he was spying on her, and just carried on the charade, because he never said anything. And at no point, is the MC ever deeply concerned by his wife not being completely honest. But they've now reached a point in the game, where anything like cheating would be meaningless. The MC has pretty much told Bella, she can do whatever she wants, and he'll love it anyway. She loves him seeing her be a complete slut, and he loves her being one. So why would she want to deny herself the satisfaction she gets, from her hubby knowing everything she gets up to?

Yes, Bella has been buttfucked, but I don't think the MC has eaten any creampies from her ass yet. He's certainly licked cum off her asshole, but I assume with it's current trajectory, it's only a matter of time before he becomes as much of a cumslut as she is, and basically becomes addicted to it as well. Like you said, the Dev certainly appears to be potentially sending the game in a direction I never expected.
 
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It's a good game and hopefully there will be a route that changes the husband into a sissy cock drunken whore that the wife will control.
 

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My comment was for those who are in the topic. You don't understand the difference, and if you don't, then there's no need to explain it to you. Be well.
I think I do understand the difference, but you patently don't, hence me replying to your comment. Yes, there is humiliation in this game, but no, that doesn't automatically make it netorare, as you appear to be suggesting. It's the context of how the MC is humiliated, that makes it either netorase or netorare.
 

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It's a good game and hopefully there will be a route that changes the husband into a sissy cock drunken whore that the wife will control.
That appears to be what the visit to the Psychologist was suggesting. Not something I initially envisaged at all.
 
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I hate that the MC was forced to wear the chastity cage. It pretty much ruined everything for me tbh.
In the most recent version? I think forced chastity was one time (the first time it was introduced, I think). In this last release I could and did refuse twice to wear one.
 
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If you're a cuck you're going to fkng love this game! If you're a vanilla snowflake your going to absolutely hate it. But, don't worry they will all let us know that their feelings are hurt:cry:
 
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WhiteFireDaemon

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I kind of wish there was a path for the wife to humiliate the mc and stuff when he doesn't like it. Like, it's supposed to be something they do already to add spice for the videos they're making, so it wouldn't be too hard to just have a sort of femdom path of "i'm going to do it even if you don't like it." It would fit well with the direction the game is going too.
 

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Essentially Hotwifing and Cuckolding are two sides of the same coin. The cuckold hotwives his partner, whereas she cuckolds him. You can't have one without the other. Generally when a man hotwives his partner, he allows her to have sex with other men, from which both partners derive mutual satisfaction. He though, is generally not allowed to have sex with other women. It's all about her receiving pleasure, and him getting off on allowing her to do it. Hotwifing/cuckolding can though have a humiliation element, with the wife belittling her husband, by comparing him unfavorably with her lovers. And whilst this may not be a part of all hotwife/cuckold relationships, it is a recognised sub-category within this lifestyle. And this can extend to the wife witholding penetration completely from her partner, to further belittle him. So I think it's perfectly within the context of this game, to refer to Bella as a hotwife.

It's been very clear from early on, that the game was likely to follow this path, and involve the more extreme elements of hotwifing. What part of the 'humiliation' option didn't you get? That was there long before you could actually use it. So the implication of it being there at all, was that the MC was inevitably going to get badly humiliated, and that generally means being constantly belittled and put in chastity, in these types of scenarios.

Yes, the Dev could have made this into a different kind of hotwifing game. But since he set out his stall early on, that the MC was going to be a classic cuck, who is increasingly humiliated by his wife, why would he do that?
I've got to strongly disagree with your characterisations.

Firstly, the premise of this story makes any distinction exceedingly difficult. Primarily because it's silly to suggest that a pimp is a cuck or that his hoes are hotwives. While we might want to argue the toss, the fact that the MC believes he is using his wife for his own financial gain changes everything ... and the fact that he might love her is quite irrelevant.

Secondly, being a 'cuckold' is a weird American fetish that has just hijacked the term and bears little to no relationship to its historical usage. Rarely is the term used correctly and mostly it's just used as a bland pejorative to describe any man whose wife has had an affair. Rather than a man whose wife has born another man's child and may or may not be still having an affair with that man.

Thirdly, aspects of humiliation ... which are just the soft elements borrowed from BDSM ... are alien to a hotwifing scenario and would in most cases result in divorce. However, within the 'American cuckold fetish' it's an essential element.

I think the problem with your characterisation comes from the fact that this story is of a 'Hotwife', but she is playing the part of a woman that is cuckolding her partner ... so it's really more like a classic NTR story of love being stolen right under the nose of a clueless MC than anything else.
The MC is delusional and thinks that they are in control and that it's a Hotwifing situation, while in reality the wife is actually bringing in all the elements of the American fetish - size queen, cum eating, subservience, cock cage, and SPH among other humiliations.

The problem with the game is that it clearly wants to drag the player down a certain path and cares not a jot to what the Player wants by avoiding any real confrontation between the protagonists and the choices that would throw up, while throwing in bogus elements like the 'no humiliation option' and the latest batch of choices in the recent update.

When the wife says no more penis action and refuses to touch, suck or fuck the MC you know where the story is going because in any other world the MC would have immediately read the riot act and/or told her to fuck right off. That the wife gets away with i, no questions asked, is just testament to (a) how wet the MC is and (b) that the MC wanted to be an American cuckold right from the get-go. So arguably there was no Hotwifing in this story at all, just an elaborate ploy by both the MC and the wife to reach the same goals ... except we know that while the MC is a complete wet spineless knob, the wife is a cold calculating narcissist that is going to physically leave the MC as soon as she's got all her ducks in a row ... because emotionally she left him somewhere between the second and third update.

If you believe that a hotwife's partner is automatically a cuckold, then you are sadly mistaken. Almost all cases of Hotwifing are for the partner's benefit. Whether that be financial, social or for access to other women ... they all use the Hotwife as currency.

It's one of the great ironies of life that porn generally portrays the Hotwife as being driven by the woman and the cuckold as being driven by the man, when in reality it is almost always the other way around. Of course, like anal sex, if you're trying to persuade someone to go counter to their natural inclinations it always pays to make out that it's this remarkable thing that you've just got to try because it's so empowering blah blah blah. Kind of like the pimp telling his hoe that being a prostitute is what she really wants in life and that she should fight for that right.
 
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WhiteFireDaemon

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You seem to be going with the colloquial definition of cuckold as the actual definition of a cuckold is simply a man who's wife is unfaithful. Also would disagree that cuckold is an American thing. Seems to be popularized in many of the western countries.

Also, in-before-mod-mass-deletion-cleanup-for-being-off-topic (and no I didn't flag it, but I'm sure it's bound to happen soon).
 

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You seem to be going with the colloquial definition of cuckold as the actual definition of a cuckold is simply a man who's wife is unfaithful. Also would disagree that cuckold is an American thing. Seems to be popularized in many of the western countries.

Also, in-before-mod-mass-deletion-cleanup-for-being-off-topic (and no I didn't flag it, but I'm sure it's bound to happen soon).
Ahm, no, the colloquial definition is yours: "a man whose wife is unfaithful", which is also the case if we talk about the "fetish cuckolding"
The original meaning of "cuckold" on the other hand is not just a man who's wife is unfaithful, it is specifically a term do describe a man whose wife has/had the child of another man and the cheated man thinks its his child acts as a father for it. (Which makes sense, the word comes from the Cuckoo-bird, which is not known for cheating on their "partner", but for putting their eggs into other birds nests to let other birds raise the children for them)
 

Zara Scarlet

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You seem to be going with the colloquial definition of cuckold as the actual definition of a cuckold is simply a man who's wife is unfaithful. Also would disagree that cuckold is an American thing. Seems to be popularized in many of the western countries.

Also, in-before-mod-mass-deletion-cleanup-for-being-off-topic (and no I didn't flag it, but I'm sure it's bound to happen soon).
Is it off-topic to discuss hotwifing, for a game that is about hotwifing? Everything above relates directly to this game, so I don't see any issue. Do mods even check these games with relatively low numbers of people commenting? I've been on game threads, where people have gone way way off-topic and I was certain we were going to have a mass-deletion, yet nothing happened.

In any case, if I disagree with a comment, and my reply subsequently gets deleted, so will the comment I disagreed with. And that's fine, because then I no longer have anything to disagree with.
 

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My comment was for those who are in the topic. You don't understand the difference, and if you don't, then there's no need to explain it to you. Be well.
But the game has no NTR in it. Either I'm misunderstanding what you wrote, or you're the one clueless about the difference between NTS and NTR.
 
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