Yeah I do have a complex, I don't like it. It leads to lazy writing, repetitive scenarios, and stale games. You couldn't understand me less, the whole "white man threatened" is itself part of the bbc fetish. I've had gfs who had black exes, my reaction was like "okay?".... BBC fetish games aren't scary or threatening, they're cringy.
Dev already said he plans to have different types of fetish content with different girls in game, so it seems like there's no issue. You can have what you want and I can have what I want.
Don't expect anyone defending the BBC fetish to understand what you're trying to say. The majority of them view anyone with criticism as a weak and insecure individual with zero credibility. I get what you're trying to say as I enjoy interracial hentai when it doesn't involve this raceplay, qos/ ownership, or cuck crap. Unfortunately, that's what the majority of it ends up becoming, from what I've seen most of the time race only becomes an element when the male is black which as you said is lazy, and repetitive.
Honestly, that's the biggest criticism of ntr that I have, as most of the ones I've read boil down to "Guy with bigger dick/ better sex skills fucks wife into being corrupted". The ntr doujins I've read that don't involve this I usually have no complaints about as it's not simply rehashing the same old troupes.
Getting back to my original point though. People defending this stuff might not realize that the majority of AI art being produced involves this BBC fetish. I mean go to any of the image hosting sites and you'll find dozens and dozens of repeat galleries with thousands of images of this. If you can't understand why people might be irritated by even more of this I can't help you. Let me clarify that I don't want the dev to stop or abandon his game (I hate when people just abandon their projects). Like you, I just don't want them to fall into the same tired tropes. It's not threatening, it's boring and overplayed.
Now queue the hate and insults, lmao.