Mate deities are even worse, look at the various greek gods and goddesses they fuck around like crazy, it be even more true for someone that is the 'mother of vampires', seeing as vampires are the 'sexual monsters' in literature and media.
Yeah ofcourse we dont know about fae's past, but in 120 years she didnt find a single guy from any race? Way too much of a stretch, 120 years is looong,multiple generations of friends come and go in that time.
Its a very lazy,tropey attempt to protect some people's feelings, regardless if it fits the world or not. I guess fair to the dev whatever he wants, but its beginning to stand out alot after this update.