- Aug 24, 2019
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Yeah as a super dom in most relationships, I am usually fine IRL with the girl sleeping around especially as I've been in a relationship like this in the last year. And one of the things is that its kind of like an ownership thing, and denying your partner stuff is kind of a core part of the relationship. As their first priority is still to you, as you are the primary.Not all of us are into super submissive stuff, so it was very appreciated that Le Stag took the time to make this new route. The subs get two routes, so we should, too. I think it's interesting that you make the effort to minimize this so much, and talk about how it's a low minority of vocal people that begged for it, when my narratives in the fan art thread (which are so obviously heavily dom-centric) are some of the most well-received posts in the whole thread.
It does suck sometimes, being a dom fan in a sub-centered-world of NTS since there's sooooo much sub content, but there's literally no reason to minimize our existence. Like I said, y'all get the majority of the content as it is, why be this way towards us? We should be a unified community, respecting each other, being anti-NTR, instead of being like that...
I am not into submissive stuff at all unless... I am being taken care of by my SO of the time. Then i will relinquish control to her. Because not everyone is full dom, full sub the whole time. Its exhausting mentally to not switch it around in the bedroom. (Also super boring)
For those who don't know: If I remember correctly it breaks down to Primary - Main caregiver (you in this relationship) and the Secondaries. Secondaries are basically there to be one of three things : Emotional, Physical, and Logical. Essentially the girl or guy seeks it out in different partners. Different qualities they find as attractive.
Typically with open relationships you need honest and open communication, once someone starts hiding things thats just cheating and it breaks down the relationship. And the relationship fails. Which happens A LOT in open relationships they are one of the hardest to maintain.
If anything we as a community are very underserved its either full awful NTR where one person is being emotional destroyed or the more worse kinds. (Which I can't name off the top of my head), especially in this game I am very happy to see the game deliver much better now on the dominant path, as I really don't relate to not having some control, and dominance over my partner. Even fictional. Like I wouldn't let my girl sleep with a guy or start kissing a guy until I say yes. OR her doing something for me.
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