Yeah, Ashley masturbating you with a fleshlight would definitely fit into the "I don't want to sleep with other girls" choice...
And, yes, choosing not to "have fun" with someone is "pushing the 'get less content' button". I'm not going to write completely different routes for that. If you don't want to sleep with Ashley, you won't sleep with Ashley. The end. There won't suddenly be a new story happening because of it.
If you decide to not participate in content, you get less content.
People right here kept asking for options to skip specific content. I kept saying it would mean "less content" for those who chose that, and I said I KNEW you'd end up complaining about it, but people still asked for it. So, yeah, that's how it is, and that's how it will stay.