That's an option? Only played the path through memories (which is a fun feature) and must have missed that part. Still, very uncute that one.
Yes. The first time Ashley calls you that, near the very beginning of the game, you can tell her that you don't like it, so she calls you sweetie instead, you call her blondie, she loves it, and everybody's happy (and, much later, when Tara starts warming up to you, she calls you the same as Ashley, ie either cucky or sweetie, depending on your initial choice).
Also, I may be wrong, but when you play the memories, I guess they only call you cucky if you choose a sub path, and sweetie if you pley either balanced or dominant (don't take this to the bank, though; but it would seem logical).
(And also, cuckly isn't demeaning at all either in Tara's or Ashley's mouth--it really is played as an endearing term (there is absolutely, totally zero humiliation play in the game, on any level), but as I said, you can totally choose sweetie instead. I know I did.)
