I just want to reinforce something: Thank you for the added option with the sex scene involving Lee. This small change (having the option to remain exhibitionistic or allow for sharing in the moment) has greatly increased my satisfaction with the game as it currently stands.
While I agree that the husband and wife just cannot seem to have sex and privacy at the same time, I suppose that's part of the nature of the game, to continually invite the possibility of others being involved somehow. The title of the game instead might be, "New Neighborhood: Surrounded by Perverts" hehehe (joking)