@mike1991
Thanks for that. Do you mind if I give you an example close to my own area of work? I generally dislike turning a topic to my work, even as example but I think its is an apt time to do so. Actually, I'm interested in everyone's opinion on this...
So, I'm currently working on a game literally titled NTR (Noemi's Toscana Rebirth... I just couldn't resist that name given my main heroine MC's name, her ethnicity and the theme of her story... especially since it's main kinks are these kinds of fetishes). The game follows a woman MC who is engaged to be married, but first she has to overcome some crippling debt and rival out to both destroy her and get her into bed (the game is in part a rebellion against the weinstein trope as well, so
@darthseduction , you'll most likely enjoy that). Overall, she is changed by her experiences and in most arcs she'll end up with other men (and occasionally a women) to various degrees of relationship, but she can possibly end up in a much more loving relationship with her fiance than when she started and without cheating in anyway...
Anyway, my point here is I fully expect once the game finds its way here that I'll get the usual "fuck ntr" stuff, which is a price we pay (even though we shouldn't have to) for having this kind of content... I'm ready for all that and honestly I don't care about those people, it's their loss if they jump at a dog-whistle. What I am more concerned about is getting it from the other side... now most people who understand this kind of content are sensible and understanding in these instances, but as this thread shows, the details can still trip people up and turn people away. Things like "it's not NTR if its a female protag" and the like... now, ultimately if people are going to just go to their corners and pass on something without giving it a chance, I have as little sympathy for them as the first group of "anti-ntr yellers", but if I can actually reach these people by making sure to use the right terms, then its worth doing so and educating myself in this area, am I right?
Ultimately my game will be as I want it and I'm not about to bend over backwards for those who protest too much. The game will include a lot of everything touched on in this tread so it may be a bit of a moot point, but how stupid would it be to not ready myself and prepare for what may be some valid criticism? So thats ultimately why I'm here today and why I find a lot of this helpful.
... Ok, sorry for the lil' rant... thanks for reading!