Theres a guide in the first page that might give you a help with that, you dont need to exactly follow it, see it more like an overall guideline. Personally i always try to have things balanced on the mc because of the several checks and early on trying to have magnetic/mindful at 35 
. As for the women i also try to have the stats balanced more because of the camp battles, if you want to get more of the 4 basic mats early on just focus their points in soic and visionary, later on with the a construction made and talents active they start increasing stats by working and stuff.
This is just personal prefence and opinion but some talents need redesign, the ones that just give base stat in both choices seem to be pointless unless you really need them early on, i think it would be better overall if one side always had max cap os stats, plus i kinda dislike Mel first talent, and it sucks cause i need to learn it if i want the last suit.