m4pII

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Idk, if I dated someone and this girl was asking all the intimate details about me from my relatives or friends without me being there or without asking me first, that would be a serious red flag for me. Trust goes both ways. If you're so paranoid about your partner being a cheater that you can't trust them to have boundaries (whether to talk or not to talk about one's ex is a personal choice that depends on willingness to open up) and need to constantly sniff around their secrets to calm down, I wouldn't trust that person because clearly there are some personal issues with self-esteem that I can't really help with, so better to spare everyone from disappointment and move separate ways.
Nobody ever talked about stalking and paranoia. Stop with the "insecurity" shit.
By observing the relationship dynamics in her family and what kind of relationship she has with her father, you can understand what you can expect in a relationship with her.
If all of her girlfriends are not in a relationship, go to the club every week, have girl nights, and sleep with a new dude every week, that's a red flag. She is who she is friends with.
If he does not like to discuss problems in a relationship - a red flag.
etc.
Yes, it takes years, but these are basic things for something serious.

The fact is, you can't control whether a person is a potential cheater or not (unless they have that reputation or something). No amount of controlling will help with that. The best tactics to avoid cheating is to be a good partner and show trust. If they have a good time with you, they won't want to risk it for some fresh excitement. And even if they do end up cheating, it's not like it's the end of the world. Not all relationships are meant to be.
Naturally, you cannot control cheating.
Naturally, you need to be a good boyfriend and not "give a reason."
But at the same time, you don't have to be naive and believe that cheating depends on whether you're a good boyfriend or not.

Sure, Axel may scratch her ego and uplift her modeling aspirations, but does he care about her emotions and well-being? Does he care about her as a person? Not really. And that's why Ian will be more valuable to her than any Axel, because he can read her like an open book and help her become the best version of herself with his careful and beautiful writing.
Sorry, but this is naivety.
 
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The cougars in D tier? Seriously?
However, S+ is the most undoubtedly true
Well what can I say, I am a sucker for youth. Maybe I should have named Goddess tier instead of S+?

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I knew someone would catch that :LOL: I pull the pics from bio page but Gillian does not have one yet, so I thought may I should not put her on the list. Then I remembered she is mommysboiii 's favourite so I had to improvise. :whistle: Btw, it was one of my favourite episode. :giggle: "and I am not listening" -Doctor
 
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