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You can call it what you want, but Ian exploits the situation to his advantage. We know in hindsight that Wade and Cindy are going to split up. But Ian doesn't know that. He suspects things are not going well between them, but he can't know that they wouldn't eventually work it out. But he can and does make sure that they dont. There's no way you can deny, that Ian doesn't betray his best friend, because he does. The main difference between Ian and Jeremy, is that Ian ultimately wants to split Wade and Cindy up, so he can have Cindy all to himself. Jeremy on the other hand, just wants a bit of fun. He's not trying to separate Ian and Lena, even if he believes their relationship is doomed.First of all, I NEVER support cheating as I believe both person involved in relationship should communicate and end things if are done with eachother rather than cheating unless it is their kink/fetish(just mentioning so you don't think I support cheating or base a "false narrative" of me).
Now coming to the difference between Ian and Jeremy,
Are you sure HE(Ian) is driving wedge between them!
In case of Ian WadexCindy are already on the verge of breakup while in Jeremy's case he knew that Ian is in love with Lena and is looking forward to go to next stage of there relationship. You can see Wade is not changing his ways to keep Cindy and is doing even worse for himself and the path he is choosing is most risky and TIME COMSUMING.
Another thing IMO none of them(Ian or Jeremy) is less than the other in terms of cheating whether they are weak-willed potato potayto or strong-willed opportunistic. All three of them are Bros together and are from high school IIRC. So IMO saying that one is better/worse than the other is absurd idea to begin with. There is no comparison. CHEATING IS CHEATING! BETRAYEL IS BETRAYEL! Period!
The original posts that I was responding to, DID suggest that Jeremy's betrayal with Lena, was much worse than Ian's with Cindy. I was simply pointing out why I believed that was untrue. Personally, I don't believe Jeremy intentionally sets out to betray Ian. He's pretty much led there by Lena, until his weakness for pussy, undermines his better nature. Surely, you can see that Lena instigates everything. And without that, Jeremy would never have succumbed. Is Jeremy weak? Yes he is. But does he intentionally set out to betray his best friend? No he categorically doesn't. You can't say the same for Ian, with Cindy. He knows exactly what he's doing. Like Lena he's the instigator. He pursues Cindy, when she's at her weakest, after her row with Wade at the club. He knows this is his chance. And he ruthlessly takes it.
And for your information, I don't support cheating either. I just like playing games that involve cheating. You do recognise, that there's a major difference, between actually doing something and playing fantasy games involving it instead? I've killed literally millions of people in fantasy games, but so far nobody in real life.
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