No, it's not a "double standard" because you can choose for Lena NOT TO spy on Jeremy and Louis. It's completely up to players choice if they want Lena to act that way or not.
I'd imagine a lot of people who have issues with spying would choose not to do it but even if they did choose to spy on Jeremy, I'd imagine it's because you kind of have to do it to access certain routes.
Also, yeah, Stan is a disgusting looking fatso who not even his own mother could love. Nobody is attracted to a disgusting creep; I don't know why everyone is acting like that is a bad thing.
It still is a double standard because Stan also gets to "Choose" too, but just not directly through a choice menu given to him as simple as Lena was given. It's slightly more subtle the way he gets to choose. The code is a little more complicated than that.
If Lena = Nice to him always + Flirty = He will spy
If Lena = A bitch to him at any point just one time = He will not spy
Stan's spying is directly related to how Lena is treating him.
As Lena you don't need to spy on Jeremy x Louise to have sex with Jeremy or Louise. You can still get sub Louise, and you can still enter into a 3some with Jeremy or suck him off at the slumber party. However, Lena just doesn't push for it as much. If you got Ian on a "Ian Loves Lena" route and told that to Jeremey, then Lena will back down after Jeremy tells her he can't do this to his friend.
I love having fat men, like Stan in adult games, and in porn I consume. The fatter, ugly, and the older the men are the better. I'm not talking a "Lemon Party" here either, I'm talking a dirtly old fat man, fucking a hot 20 year old woman.
You call it "The Bug", but I call it "The Feature".
You get a woman in there with "Chad Thundercock" Give him a nice hair cut, a face looking like Brad Pit, muscles glistening like a professional athlete... 10 inch dong... Who the fuck wants to see that guy laying the pipe? I'll pass! That's not fun for me to watch.
Too much "Male Focus"... Sounds kinda gay to me.
On the other hand...
Take that same woman. Put her with "Chubby Bubba". Make him balding, a face like John Candy. Blubber jiggling like an elephant in an earthquake. 6 inch dong... The Beauty and the Beast Contrast is immense! Fuck yea! Lets see this guy get some!
Not much "Male Focus".... Straight as an arrow to me!
I don't like seeing women with attractive men in porn. I love seeing them with ugly, or old or fat men.
Because that way I know she is more of a whore, and I want her to be the biggest whore on the planet.
I don't want her to "Have a good time".
I want her to "Do it for the money."
I want her to "Hate herself in the morning."
I want her to "Question herself"
I hope she "Asked for extra money since he is ugly"
I want a great big fat man, with a big hairy belly that would put Santa to shame, chugging a can of corn like it's a beer while he is plowing the prom queen from behind!