They do, but I can't see why, for me it's like reading the Harry Potter books or watching the movies and identifying with Pettigrew. No matter how you really are IRL, it's fantasy, people tend to go for less pathetic characters. So that's why I was genuinely asking if their attraction was to the incel pathetic simp or to the fairy tale of someone like that getting to fuck Lena and so losing at least the incel thing.Maybe because the paetrons identify with him?
I wouldn't say Wade is fully commited to Cindy. It seems you are reducing being "fully commited" to not cheating, but he considers an effort going to have some beers to his favourite place with his friends and an almost insurmountable sacrifice going to a club from time to time. It's telling that he needs an effort from Ian to at least try to show he gives a fuck about the relationship.You mean like Wade is "fully committed to her and only her"? Lol. I get this hope for the good ending with Cindy, but if you would just take those pink glasses off for one second and think about the way you are getting in her pants, you would see that she have no problems with cheating on a fully commited partner. And if you think that it's different, that Ian can shower her with attention and he is in better shape and with better prospects than Wade, than let me remind you: Axel is in even better shape and with better prospects and can get her into the career and lifestyle she wants.
Again, I get the wish for happily ever after with Cindy but it is totally unrealistic. Even if EK would make it possible for one reason or another.