Exactly, and I do not find him very flattering so I don't really engage with his content outside of the Alison threesome. Lena is the MC too after all.
Again, I have no issue with this. The problem I have with Jeremy is that he doesn't own up to it like a player would. That is why I call him feeble.
It's not really, not exactly at least. Good looks sure, a wad of confidence perhaps, at least enough to pretend to attempt game. Jeremy is a bit inconsistent though since he for example has to be convinced to get with Emma and he plays a little boy's game with Louise. The latter point though goes into guesswork about the background of the story which isn't necessarily very constructive, but I don't think it's impossible to think Louise might not have gotten with him at all if he had dispelled her notions about a relationship, like a player with a conscience, such as Jeremy professes himself to be, could have done. Regardless I don't really view Jeremy as a real "free for all" player, he is somewhat particular about where he spends his efforts, he chases low-hanging fruit other than Ivy and Lena has to throw herself at him for content, it's not really him being a player so much as it's Lena being one.

So I don't find him very convincing as a player type.
It's a wholesome hobby though, just like bird watching!