Porn games are supposed to relax people, not upset them.
Porn games are first- and foremost geared towards an adult audience. They are not supposed to relax, they are supposed to entertain and/or to get you off. There is also a fine line between adult and porn content, and i would say while porn concentrates on the latter, adult content puts more weight on the former. I would argue, ORS is more a game for adults than a porn game.
Now what keeps you entertained and gets you off is completely up to you.
Personally i don't watch Action and Horror Movies, because they don't entertain me.
Sometimes i want to entertain myself with unsettling and disturbing content, then i watch series like GoT or the Walking Dead, on other times i like to relax and smile, in that cases i go for CGDCT animes like NonNon Biyori or Yuru Camp
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Honestly it's a bit self-centered to observe yourself not enjoying a certain type of content and after that jumping to the conclusion that this content shouldn't be featured at all in a certain type of media. Which in your case and ORS would be sexual relations which impact the ingame characters, and in my case action and horror in movies, which i consider an unfortunate waste of time and money.
However, the wrong conclusion is obviously to generalize ones own preference and to decide how a certain media is supposed to work and please its audience.
It looks like you fell into the ever increasing trap of 'The world needs to adjust to me' instead of 'I have to adjust to the world'.
Which is probably why you got some rather harsh comments.
Like someone else pointed out already, you can't criticize something for what it is, but only if it serves its intended purpose well and correct or not. It's like berating a thermometer for measuring temperature instead of humidity.
All i can say is, that i greatly enjoy the thrill, the consequences and the impact my choices make throughout an adult game, whereas the usual 'gonna get them anyway' fail to establish any sense of accomplishment for me, and thus aren't rewarding at all.
I don't want to sound condescending, but you either need to play ORS in a way you can enjoy or to switch to another game which is able to entertain you. Because ORS is working as intended.
