Fetishes in games vs. IRL

[215303j]

Two of the main fetishes in erotic games seem to be incest and NTR / cuckolding.
Edit for clarification: I'm not claiming that these are the only popular fetishes, I chose these because of their IRL impact compared to more vanilla fetishes.

Definitions for clarity:
Incest = consentual sex between adult family members
NTR / cuckolding = some other person having sex with your partner (broad definition)

This means these fetishes must be quite popular.
So I was wondering how you relate to these fetishes IRL.

 

[freedom.call]

No interest whatsoever in incest (which I enjoy in games).
NTR, who knows....never been in that situation and my immediate thought is No but I don't know how I would have reacted in that situation tbh. Not something I think about or think I'd want to try at all, but we don't really know if we can come to like something not having tried.

I believe that covers that!

 

[polywog]

Incest fantasy is very common among those who suffer from "only child syndrome" having no real siblings to play doctor with, their fantasy can be very unrealistic.

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[jkkjjkjkjjkkkjjl]

Neither of those are "main" fetishes. A bit like going to a gay bar and concluding that most people on this planet are gay.

 

[Tataro]

Was in prison for 7 years for shooting my wife and her lover. Guess the answer would be No but I experienced it. Good times lol

 

[freedom.call]

Was in prison for 7 years for shooting my wife and her lover. Guess the answer would be No but I experienced it. Good times lol

Almost afraid to ask now but who's the woman in your signature?

 

[Tataro]

Almost afraid to ask now but who's the woman in your signature?

Not my ex for sure lol. Mal Malloy is in the sig.

 

[freedom.call]

Not my ex for sure lol. Mal Malloy is in the sig.

Thanks, the third one is

 

[polywog]

Was in prison for 7 years for shooting my wife and her lover. Guess the answer would be No but I experienced it. Good times lol

A woman only gets 2 years for the same crime.

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[Pervy Lad]

It's funny that I can fap to pretty much anything either online or in a game, but the thought of actually partaking of even a fraction of my fetishes in real life is less then appealing. Interesting stuff.

 

[Ataios]

None of these are my main fetishes. My main fetish is lesbian, which I can't experience IRL, for obvious reasons.

I like incest in games, but not IRL (and I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend with someone not related to me).

I find NTR repulsive, even in games let alone even think of it IRL.

 

[ThisIsMe88]

Two of the main fetishes in erotic games seem to be incest and NTR / cuckolding.

Haha, no, you probably wish .

It may be popular on this site, for some reason, but definitely not elsewhere on the net or in the real world, among sane people

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[215303j]

It's funny that I can fap to pretty much anything either online or in a game, but the thought of actually partaking of even a fraction of my fetishes in real life is less then appealing. Interesting stuff.

I think the poll results show that your view is actually the most common.
Interesting indeed, I had not expected such a one-sided result.

Haha, no, you probably wish .

It may be popular on this site, for some reason, but definitely not elsewhere on the net or in the real world, among sane people

Not really, the reason why I chose these two fetishes in particular is because of the dangers associated with them IRL. Obviously incest and NTR are completely different and unrelated fetishes but the one thing they share is the danger.

I guess that the reasoning behind it could be, that although people find the concepts exciting, many actually think they are too dangerous to even fantasize about doing it with IRL people.

What surprises me the most as that nobody so far is willing to admit to fantasizing about such a situation. I could understand it if you don't have any family members that you find physically attractive or if you don't have a partner to be NTR'ed by, but those situations are statistically unlikely to add up to zero votes.

The other reason is that people are not entirely honest when voting, but that's why I included the "don't want to say" option, which I used in order not to influence the results.

 

[Tataro]

The votes are anonymous, why would they lie about it.

 

[215303j]

The votes are anonymous, why would they lie about it.

No idea... Just saying that statistically speaking I am puzzled by the outcome.
Given that the poll options more or less evenly increase in intensity, I would have expected something like a bell curve, although likely not a perfect one because the questions are not fully objective.
Still, like I said, I think fantasizing is still a reasonable outlet for more extreme fetishes without actually hurting anyone and I find it strange that not even one person voted for that. I expected that to be one of the largest groups actually.

 

[Tataro]

No idea... Just saying that statistically speaking I am puzzled by the outcome.
Given that the poll options more or less evenly increase in intensity, I would have expected something like a bell curve, although likely not a perfect one because the questions are not fully objective.
Still, like I said, I think fantasizing is still a reasonable outlet for more extreme fetishes without actually hurting anyone and I find it strange that not even one person voted for that. I expected that to be one of the largest groups actually.

Or it could be because people are invested but at the same time detached from their characters in the game. Incest is hot because of the risk but you're not bearing the risk nor do you have ingrained biological feelings of repulsion towards your flesh and blood active when you're dealing with characters you just "met" a few seconds ago.

For Cuckoldry I'd say it's different since you're not dealing with ingrained biological feelings but rather psychological issues on part of the man who wishes to see himself humiliated or denegrated as well as genetically replaced. It's up there with self harm and suicidal desires, but such individuals often lack the ability to pursue their fetish, or if they do pursue it fall into complete depravity.

 

[Ashley young]

Two of the main fetishes in erotic games seem to be incest and NTR / cuckolding.

Definitions for clarity:
Incest = consentual sex between adult family members
NTR / cuckolding = some other person having sex with your partner (broad definition)

This means these fetishes must be quite popular.
So I was wondering how you relate to these fetishes IRL.

Neither of incest and ntr are popular in irl. Just because 8 people in a room of 10 like incest/ntr does not mean than 80% of the people in the world like it. Incest is more common than most think it is, but is is still very marginally small compared to other fetishes. ntr/cuck fetishes are one of the more despised/divisive fetishes, in a survey in 2017 ( I'll try to find a link), most the people watching cuckolding porn would never want to get cucked relationship irl.
In fact, there was a survey in 2018 by an adult website (it was PornHub i think) on popularity of fetishes, and the most popular fetishes in the world came out to be anal, footjobs, titjobs followed by mild bondage play.

Personally, I don't give a shit about incest irl. As for cucking, fuck that shit, I despise it in games, porn and real life.

 

[Silver]

Not interested in incest, not interested in cuckolding. both are weird, and harmful to the society/ to yourself.
incest can lead to pollute the genepool, cuckold can lead to break families, damage the personality, It's an extreemly toxic fetish if you get used to.

 

[215303j]

Or it could be because people are invested but at the same time detached from their characters in the game. Incest is hot because of the risk but you're not bearing the risk nor do you have ingrained biological feelings of repulsion towards your flesh and blood active when you're dealing with characters you just "met" a few seconds ago.

Yes, but on the other hand, incest games where you cannot name the characters also get a lot of flak. This likely means that people insert not only themselves, but also their relatives in such games. Otherwise there would be no point in having / requesting that feature.

For Cuckoldry I'd say it's different since you're not dealing with ingrained biological feelings but rather psychological issues on part of the man who wishes to see himself humiliated or denegrated as well as genetically replaced. It's up there with self harm and suicidal desires, but such individuals often lack the ability to pursue their fetish, or if they do pursue it fall into complete depravity.

True I guess.

Neither of incest and ntr are popular in irl. Just because 8 people in a room of 10 like incest/ntr does not mean than 80% of the people in the world like it.

I'm not asking the world, I'm asking the room because I have an idea what kind of games are popular here.

ntr/cuck fetishes are one of the more despised/divisive fetishes, in a survey in 2017 ( I'll try to find a link), most the people watching cuckolding porn would never want to get cucked relationship irl.

That's interesting, I hope you find that link.

In fact, there was a survey in 2018 by an adult website (it was PornHub i think) on popularity of fetishes, and the most popular fetishes in the world came out to be anal, footjobs, titjobs followed by mild bondage play.

Sure, but those fetishes are quite vanilla. They are not life changing. If you like (the idea of) anal, you can propose this to your bf/gf, if he/she is not interested you can try to pursuade, if not, then not. And if yes, then yes. Not a big deal either way. Personally I don't get excited by footjobs, but if my gf were into it, I would have no objections either.

Gay/lesbian are a bit on the border I think. Such feelings / relationships are generally accepted at least in Europe / America, but still can give some problems in life. And depending on the circumstances, many people still stay inside the closet.

Incest and cuckolding on the other hand are generally considered unacceptable even if not illegal. Yet they are still very popular, both on this site as well as in real porn. Go to The Pirate Bay and browse porn movies, there are plenty of both incest and cuckolding high in the shared file list. Of course watching that kind of stuff doesn't make people actually want to do it IRL.

Not interested in incest, not interested in cuckolding. both are weird, and harmful to the society/ to yourself.
incest can lead to pollute the genepool, cuckold can lead to break families, damage the personality, It's an extreemly toxic fetish if you get used to.

Of course, but I think that most people can divide the fantasy from the real, like GTA and FPS games.
On the other hand, in many countries, both incest (between consentual adults) and cuckolding is not illegal, so why not go for it?
This is NOT saying that I personally would go for it. Personally I agree with you, the risks are way to great for my tastes.

 

[Tataro]

Yes, but on the other hand, incest games where you cannot name the characters also get a lot of flak. This likely means that people insert not only themselves, but also their relatives in such games. Otherwise there would be no point in having / requesting that feature.


True I guess.

I'm not asking the world, I'm asking the room because I have an idea what kind of games are popular here.

That's interesting, I hope you find that link.

Sure, but those fetishes are quite vanilla. They are not life changing. If you like (the idea of) anal, you can propose this to your bf/gf, if he/she is not interested you can try to pursuade, if not, then not. And if yes, then yes. Not a big deal either way.

Gay/lesbian are a bit on the border I think. Such feelings / relationships are generally accepted at least in Europe / America, but still can give some problems in life. And depending on the circumstances, many people still stay inside the closet.

Incest and cuckolding on the other hand are generally considered unacceptable even if not illegal. Yet they are still very popular, both on this site as well as in real porn. Go to The Pirate Bay and browse porn movies, there are plenty of both incest and cuckolding high in the shared file list. Of course watching that kind of stuff doesn't force/make people actually want to do it IRL.


Of course, but I think that most people can divide the fantasy from the real, like GTA and FPS games.
On the other hand, in many countries, both incest (between consentual adults) and cuckolding is not illegal, so why not go for it?
This is NOT saying that I personally would go for it. Personally I agree with you, the risks are way to great for my tastes.

I never heard of inability to name chars causing rage. People probably like to name chars and I do to, usually I got Chad Thundercock as MC and stacy as primary interest.