Could you clarify this particular action?  "don't H her" could mean many different things....  I have tried talking to her several times in every outfit, I have tried doing nothing beyond entering her room in every outfit (except the lingerie I am trying to unlock).  Am I supposed to have her in a specific outfit (or 1 of the 3 outfits she actually has that involve clothes) or nude?  Of the options Talk, dance, strip, finger, handjob, blowjob, sex or nothing which should I do?  Also could you give me an estimate (or exact amount) of visits to get the lingerie?