Seriously are you giving me an example based on a game? I don't write very well in English, but I'll try, keep in mind that I use a translator to try to clarify myself better.
Any man who wants to see his girlfriend or lover get fucked by others, whether it's in a game or in real life, means you're beta. An Alpha person, takes everything and doesn't let anyone else earn anything. You take all the earnings for yourself if you want to be an alpha. Whether it's in a game or in real life, the choice to be number 1 is yours alone. But if you share with others, you're just being someone's number 2. It's not you who enjoys it, but her if you let others fuck her. Who's earning more, you or her? Are you standing there doing fapping in your hand watching her? Or watching a friend of yours or someone else fucked you girls while you're with them? Come on, the answer is very simple, I repeat, whether it's a game or real life, if you're an alpha you take everything.