I am male and i prefer male if i can be dominating one. Not at all interested in males as partners or playing as submissive male. Sometimes i enjoy playing as female characters, but i am not interested in consensual submission. I would like a game where main character is female and if i choose "struggle" options, it leads to non-con sex/submission.
Altough non-con and sometimes even dark stuff is what i like, sometimes games with good story or characters make me play porn games like i play most games most of the time, aka i choose "knight in shining armor" options.
It all depends on the game. Porn games are by nature far more selective than games in general, i just can't roleplay as gay men in porn games. It can be turn off and if i can't choose differently, can be enough to stop me from playing the game. Its different in other games, for example i don't like zombies at all, but husks in Mass Effect still don't stop me from playing the game. I can just shoot them, but in porn games shooting as gay character at male subjects is something quite different...
So game can be really good and have lots of good stuff in it, but if it does not fit my niche, i just might not play it at all. It also works other way around to a point, i play games that have what sexual content i enjoy even though some of them are not good games. I still have standards though.
Retreat is good example of game that i wish i could enjoy, but it just has way too much sausages (and yes, i played through more than just the very beginning). And generally i would like to be one who is dominating instead of being dominated. If i could play as female character, it would not bother me as much. If i play as female character, i would prefer people who dominate her also be female, even though i am not interested in dominatrixes unless i could play as dominatrix.
Propably what i like the least is playing as sissy. I don't mind gender transformation if it includes being transformed physically into female and not just dressing and acting like one or growing boobs but still having dick.