- Oct 3, 2017
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You forgot a live in maid, cook, nurse, caretaker, psychatrist, painter, etc.
Meaby it is just my personal experiance but in my life i noticed that woman do ten times the work of men around the household while also having a job and doing the majority of raising the kids.
The difference between prostitute and wife is value.
A prostitute is an expensive one night stand.
A wife is a life long investment that makes you happy.
Men are focused on goals.
We see woman as prize's to be won.
The better the woman the better the bragging rights.
It would however be wrong to believe men do not value woman.
Our entire life is about finding the best one we can get.
The reason we dont cheat or try for a harem is because it would be to costly.
Alimony, nagging, risk of getting caught, multiple expenseses, upkeep of housing, etc.
Then there is the peer pressure.
Do to our nature to see woman as valueable prize's to be treasured we are extreemly defendsive towards them.
Rapist are the lowest of criminal scum and even there fellow criminals hate them.
Then there is the double standerds.
Crime is somehow always worse if it happends to a woman.
A man got raped: I bet you liked it or you where weak and deserve to be raped.
A woman got raped: Where is the guy i kill him.
To us men life is a competation.
We all go for gold but most of us wont even get bronze.
Now before people jump down my throught and claim my facts are false(woudnt be the first time)
This is my observasion based on history, personal experiance, amateur psychologie.
The thing that separate humans from animals is our ability to think ahead.
Alot of the time we act the way we do because of culture, peer pressure and the risk of jail.
Remember that in our history we had:
Men dragging woman by the hair.
Political marriages to secure power for the head of the household(again men)
Men inherrit even if they have an older sister.
In modern days we have men and woman who have had six or seven relationships and it is consider compleetly normal.
Etc.
We see it more as effort vs reward.
Money is a means to an end.
A high maintenance girlfriend is going to be considered a waste of time and effort unless she offer something that makes it worth it.
Likewise a low maintenance we are far more lenient with.
It isnt that we expect sex for money.
We expect rewards for the time and effort we spend into making woman happy.
Sex is but one suchs reward.
Remember: Woman are the prize but not all prizes are equal.
The more valueable the woman the more we are willing to invest to get her to want to make us happy.
I agree we men have bigger ego's.For some that's more about ego. Let's face it, lots of those types are dating women out of their league in terms of looks or wit, so they use money to bolster up their appeal. What they are getting for their money is time with a woman who wouldn't have been with them otherwise - which is pretty clearly getting close to prostitution, or at least, paid escort territory. They just don't want to admit that their most attractive quality is their wallet, and it only attracts a certain type of girl willing to sacrifice the quality of her dates for the quantity of their cash.
A men breaks up with a woman and the woman will ask: What is wrong with me.
A woman breaks up with a men the men will go like: What? After all i have done for that ungratefull bitch?
That is just human nature.
Men are natural more competative and competation is driven by ego.
Woman are natural more nurturing and considered of others.
There is a current shift in culture that makes men more passive and woman more aggressive but so far:
Men hunt, woman raise.
I am not argueing if it is just, right or how it shoud be.
I am merely pointing out the last 2000+ years.
Most of our actions are based on culture.
If woman where consider property we would act entirely different.
But since woman are seen as person of value that are to be treasured, protected and cared for.
To do less would make you unworthy of being a men in the eyes of our modern western culture.
After all:
On a related note:
Most porn games i seen are about men getting to "own" multiple woman or woman sleeping around.
I have yet to see a porn game where a woman "owned" multiple men.
