So in order to avoid having the truthful tag of swinging... you got them to change the definition...
What are you going to do if they ever add a MMF tag? Have them change it so it's [When there are multiple MMF scenes] instead of [Has a MMF scene].
The mental gymnastics to avoid the realty is crazy.
And now because of you, it became that much harder for EVERYONE to avoid sharing games, because the swinging tag can't be used for them anymore... good job.
You may not have done NTR or straight up backstabbed by adding NTR, but you did more damage to the harem fans than any of those devs ever could. All that extra wasted time, just because of your ego over not wanting a tag.